Once again I am at a lose for which gender to make a character. I like both the male a female wizard VO actor alot. I love crispin freemen and grey delisle. When I play the female I feel like I'm playing azula from avatar and when I play the male I feel like I'm playing itachi from naruto or alucard from hellsing. The male looks like some feudal lord and the female looks like Circe from wonder woman or something when geared. Which do you guys think will look better in gear or is better to play?

well, azula is way better than both of those dudes so from the voice actor standpoint, the female wizard obviously wins

I went with a male.  Frankly, I think you're putting too much thought into this.  All that matters is that you chose the right class.
 
Wizard 4 Life.

I wasn't aware there was a male wizard, only 2 females.

I chose a female barbarian and she has the most retarded-sounding voice-actor I've ever heard in a game.

So.. don't pick her.

Would the "if you're gonna stare at a character's ass the whole time" rule apply here?

I went lady wizard because I liked Grey Delisle's voice acting.

Play female. If you are going to look at a model for 20+ hours of game play, at least look at some ass.

female because I dislike the shall we say "Blood Elfness? of the male Wizard. The male Wizard those have great lines in a few cases though.