I think the "C" word is about the most appropriate word to describe the camera-man. Sorry, I mean camera-boy because he obviously has the maturity of a kid younger than the kid in the video.
While I don't think children should be coddled or rewarded for not putting forth effort, this is just pathetic.
First of all, if you're "punishing" anyone, it should be yourself for being such fucked parents. If he's failing in school it's almost certainly your fault for not raising the kid with the skills and principles required or for not paying enough attention to your kid to figure out if there's a particular reason (such as a learning disability). Second of all, how is this going to teach him to get better grades? He gets nothing either way according to the logic you're teaching him. Get him a book or something, tell him if he works hard and improves his grades that you'll buy him a console. With a kid that young, the parents are pretty much responsible for 90% of his behavior one way or another.
My parents (before college): Oh? You got all A's this semester? Just like last time? Good. Keep doing it.
Me: Uhhhh. Do I get anything? The kids on TV always get something when they get good grades!
Parents: Get something? How about this, we don't acknowledge that you are a complete failure to us all... So long as you keep the grades up of course. And the extracurriculars. And the clubs. And you keep playing piano.
Me: Yeah. Okay. Thanks.
Anyway. Yeah, what happened to this kid was a little mean-spirited, I guess. I never really got much from my parents when I was a kid, but they never tricked me into thinking I was getting anything. I just knew to expect nothing. As for people saying that this kid is going to be "messed up" and crap? Not trying to being a dick here, but there were times where I hated my parents beyond all belief but looking back, I can see why they did what they did and how it helped get to where I am today. Yeah, the way they ridiculed the kid is a little overboard, but he should get over it. If one little instance like this is what it takes to "break" a kid and destroy their trust in the parents that have raised, sheltered, and fed him for his entire life, then kids these days are too soft (and it hasn't even been that long since I was his age). Maybe it will motivate him to do well in school, not for the PS4, but to show his parents that he's the bigger man. I hope it does.
While I agree that most kids would be fine with one or two of these shitty experiences, considering the entire family is in on the joke I'm guessing he's not getting much in the way of proper parenting at any point in time. Everyone dislikes their parents here and there, but trust me, most people who go out of their way to pull shit like this? They don't just do it here and there. They do it all the time.
I can say from personal experience that it's a bit of a tossup as to weather you'll come out the other side strong or not. My little sister is royally fucked up as she grows into her 20's because of the treatment our father gave she and I and my younger brother. Like very serious, life threatening mental illness shit. It's easy to show an example of how someone can totally get through the hell of a shitty household growing up. Hell, I came out the other side just fine. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or have any more psychological conditions than the next guy, at least not because of my father. And now I'm working towards enlisting in the Marine Corps, working my way up in my current job, and showing my father just how much better than him I can be. But some really awful shit has been placed on my little sis' shoulders because of the asshole who raised both of us.
Ever case is different, and you can never really know what is going on as a whole through just one video. I can safely say that the most mature and respectable person in the video was the kid getting punked, and I can assume that those parents aren't great parents. For all we know they could be awesome but made a stupid decision while trying to do something good. Or complete assholes. Hard to assume there's a pattern just because there's a good chance there is, either way you see it. The kid will survive this one event, but if his family treats him that way on a regular basis? Who knows.
A bit of a sidenote: the best Christmas present I ever got was a loan of $500 for classes to work towards being ready to enlist. That's the kind of thing that motivates and teaches, not being an asshole and acting like a complete buffoon.
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