Do you judge people by looks before you meet them?

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#1  Edited By CornontheCobbe

Would you be the kind of person to judge someone before you get to know more about them or their background, by looking at them? Say if you started a new job, and your co-workers don't talk much for the first few days, would you maybe judge them by looking at their physical features and the way they act? Trying to think of an example here... Maybe a guy with long hair and a beard, would you immediately think he's into metal music and likes to go to concerts and drink lots of alcohol etc?
 
I sometimes find I do with some people. It's not exactly the best thing to do, as people try not to judge a book by its cover, but i think this is slightly different. Would you?

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#2  Edited By Dom

yup

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#3  Edited By Hamz

Yes. Because it's human nature to make a snap judgement about someone within a few brief minutes of seeing or meeting them.
 
Hell I believe science has proven that within the first 10 seconds of seeing members of the opposite sex you've decided whether you'd sleep with them or foresee having kids with them. I mean if your subconscious can decide that quickly whether you're attracted to a person or not, I imagine you can instantly judge someone within minutes of meeting them as well ;)

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#4  Edited By killroycantkill

I know it's not right to but I do. Half the people I see in the mall I'm just like 'What a douche" for no reason.

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#5  Edited By Dad_Is_A_Zombie

I think we all size someone up before we actually meet them whether we want to admit it or not.

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#6  Edited By eroticfishcake

All the time. Funny how you ask since when I first met you I thought "He looks Canadian...". Must be your clothes. I'm a very judgemental person but I'm always polite to them and know about them more before I make any proper judgement on them.

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#7  Edited By Siphillis

Both a victim and a perpetrator.

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#8  Edited By Romination

I'm actually usually right. My snap decisions are a bit less 'snappy' than other people's

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#9  Edited By blair

Fuck yes.  I judge people on a number of levels based on a range of factors.  I'm quite a shallow person in general but I tend to gauge people quite accurately.  I'm an effective people-watcher.  'Judging' people is a fairly valuable asset in life, and its usefulness is especially invaluable in business (my field).

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#10  Edited By Vinchenzo

Yes.

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#11  Edited By Noodles
@Killroycantkill said:
" I know it's not right to but I do. Half the people I see in the mall I'm just like 'What a douche" for no reason. "
Pretty much this. Sometimes I'll make a snap judgement of someone and be completely wrong about them (and feel bad because of it). But, I suppose that is human nature.
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#12  Edited By CornontheCobbe
@Blair said:
" Fuck yes.  I judge people on a number of levels based on a range of factors.  I'm quite a shallow person in general but I tend to gauge people quite accurately.  I'm an effective people-watcher.  'Judging' people is a fairly valuable asset in life, and its usefulness is especially invaluable in business (my field). "
Hmmm.. interesting. Why is it so useful in business may i ask? Would you be talking about someone who knows his stuff and is a good businessman, can make sales, but looks like a typical drug-dealer? Would he be looked upon as someone who does not have a clue because of the way he looks?
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#13  Edited By frankfartmouth

Of course. That's a pyschologically necessary thing to do. If you didn't, you'd go apeshit trying to filter the world one piece at a time. It's when prejudices and stereotypes become systemic and unmoveable--when after time, the individual in front of you can't get through those filters--that it becomes a problem
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#14  Edited By zam1524

Yes I do, and I'm pretty much right most of the time.

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#15  Edited By Hourai

Doesn't everybody?

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#16  Edited By Organicalistic_
@Romination said:
" I'm actually usually right. My snap decisions are a bit less 'snappy' than other people's "
mine too
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#17  Edited By SonicFire

Yes, it's more or less a natural response. Think about it...if you see a guy wearing three pink/pastel polo shirts, all with collars popped, you're probably going to think "douchebag." Likewise, if you go to a gamestore and see the 300 pound nerd with skin problems and no hygeine, you're probably not going to think "man, that's a guy I want to talk to." 
 
The reality may be different. But hey it's human nature. As for me, I can sometimes look like I fell off the cast of Jersey Shore, but those people disgust me.
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#18  Edited By Romination
@organicalistic_ said:
" @Romination said:
" I'm actually usually right. My snap decisions are a bit less 'snappy' than other people's "
mine too "
that makes me judge you
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#19  Edited By Snail

Yes. It's especially easy and tempting to do so with teenagers these days.

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#20  Edited By sjschmidt93

Yeah... all the time. And I think you just described jakob. =-)

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#21  Edited By Godlovesugly

No I did not and now I'm dead!
How was I supposed to know that a blood soaked man in a prison uniform holding an axe in one hand and a decapitated head in the other would cause my untimely death?

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#22  Edited By Feser

I will stare at someone and profile them. Then I will procede to make random conversation that is designed to reveal whether or not I am right.
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#23  Edited By CornontheCobbe
@SJSchmidt93: Hehehe... yeah i probably did. No offense Jakob! We love you.
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#24  Edited By blair

@CornontheCobbe said:

" @Blair said:

" Fuck yes.  I judge people on a number of levels based on a range of factors.  I'm quite a shallow person in general but I tend to gauge people quite accurately.  I'm an effective people-watcher.  'Judging' people is a fairly valuable asset in life, and its usefulness is especially invaluable in business (my field). "
Hmmm.. interesting. Why is it so useful in business may i ask? Would you be talking about someone who knows his stuff and is a good businessman, can make sales, but looks like a typical drug-dealer? Would he be looked upon as someone who does not have a clue because of the way he looks? "
Well, I'm not sure I fully understand your question.  If you're asking if I think ones objective looks affect the way people subjectively interpret them?  The answer is yes, obviously.  Dress/style, looks and mannerisms are all vital indicators of character to analytical thinkers and people-watchers. 
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#25  Edited By Zajtalan

yes but i wish i didnt because i hate it

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#26  Edited By CornontheCobbe
@Blair: Yes, I must apologize I phrased the question quite unclear.
 
Yeah, that was basically what I was asking. : )
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#27  Edited By Jimbo

Just assume everybody is a dick as soon as you meet them.  That way you can't be disappointed, and very, very occasionally, you will be pleasantly surprised to be proven wrong.

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#28  Edited By TheHT

Judge? I'll judge the way they look sure, but to infer anything about the person they are is stupid.

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#29  Edited By TwoOneFive

i think for the most part yes. if you are dressed like a fucking slob i'll think, yeah he's a fucking slob. shit like that. so yeah i do. 

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#30  Edited By sickVisionz

Yes.  I can recognize that the snap judgement might be completely bogus, but I still made one.

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#31  Edited By Juno500

Everybody does, whether they realize it or not.

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#32  Edited By Hot_Karl

Of course. We're a visual species. What looks attractive (by that I mean "attraction", not if someone is "hot" or "ugly" or whatever) to us will make us think about what qualities we'd connotate with said person.

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#33  Edited By Blackout62

Yes.

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#34  Edited By leviathan

Yup, do it all the time. "LOL, look at that loser", "WOW, that guy looks like a douche", "Haha, that guy is trying too hard, he thinks he's so cool"

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#35  Edited By ApertureSilence

If you answered no, you're a liar.

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#36  Edited By HODGEY3000

its hard not to
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#37  Edited By rjayb89

Yes, I helped a chick out with her car engine once right after I checked her out.  Hadn't she been hot, I probably wouldn't have helped.

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#38  Edited By Bionicicide

I think it's natural to profile (a trait picked up for human survival), but not politically correct.

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#39  Edited By mshaw006
@Siphillis said:
" Both a victim and a perpetrator. "
As are we all. Well put.
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Yes, it's pretty much human nature to make a judgment of people based on any interactions with them.  I don't just count out people that I judge to be the kind of person I wouldn't hang out with though until I actually get to know them.  I wouldn't have made two of my best friends if I did that.

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#41  Edited By oldschool

I think we all do in varying degrees and how varies with the person.  I see a Nordic Rock fan and I know what he is into and am not concerned, whereas other see the devil - stuff like that.  If I see a girl with way too much skin exposed, I assume she is a slut and probably stupid - most times I am right. 
 
The important thing is to keep an open mind and not judge too much and allow their personality to complete the image.

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#42  Edited By Lawrens

Depend how he looks, if he looks like marilyn manson and wearing make up then I'd expect him to act a little bit different than a normal person, but I wouldn't "judge" him as good or bad.

And depend why you're meeting the person.