@Ramone said:
The comments very rarely provide anything of use in news stories/editorials like the one Patrick posted today. There is no discussion, just people shouting at each other.
Really? I received a LOT of PMs from people with regard to my comment in that thread (which I personally thought I wrote too quickly, without any proof-reading or second-read through, off-the-cuff, too wordy, and in a bit of an antagonized and frustrated/exhausted mood to be of any interest to anyone whatsoever). They all said that I expressed a lot of sentiment that they had tried or wanted to say, but had not "so eloquently". (Someone even said it was twice as good as the article, itself). I think that's kind of those people, but personally I *know* I tend to be too off-the-cuff, not exercise enough brevity, and indulge too much in an emotional response than a more thoughtful and well-constructed one that I would write if I were producing an article.
I say all that to lead to my personal point that I quite often read responses in the comment section of articles that are far more compelling, curious, or even informative than the articles themselves. It's harder to pick those out when they're deeper into these ten and fifty page threads with no nesting and just a bit ugly flat flow of chronological comments, but I know they're sprinkled throughout there. Often with a lot of obnoxious two sentence shit spewed between them, from someone who just read the title or something and dumped their thoughts in (I'm guilty of that, too). Often with a lot of mean shit said in-between about Alex or Patrick or whoever wrote the article (and that, I agree is the internet being internet). It ain't all gold. Not even most of it is gold. But enough of it is that I find it worth giving at least a cursory scan through other people's contributions.
If everyone wrote the stuff I wrote, I'd probably hate it. I know I'm an accomplished writer and it's a significant part of my profession, in fact. But I'm kind of a shitty commentor. But there are so many good ones out there and even the ones that post 90% garbage produce enlightening and thought-provoking gems, sometimes. So I can't even write them off by name, either.
@SpunkyHePanda said:
Patrick specifically took time to respond to comments on his article today, so they must see some value in them.
When I see @patrickklepek respond to comments most of the time, I am not sure how to interpret it. Especially when he responds to mine (rarely, but it has happened). I don't know if he really wants to engage in a discussion with people or if he is responding because he feels that he has received so much criticism or attack in a particular article or discussion that he is compelled to counter (human nature). I try to be a thoughtful person considerate of other people's emotions and the fact that no matter what I think of anyone, they still have a regular life with regular bullshit to deal with when they step away from the keyboard, but I'm as guilty as any other mother fucker of saying shit a little too quickly, hotly, and judgmentally. I know that I'm not trying to make it personal and that all the things I just said sort of exist in my mind while I compose something to someone. I know that I can compartmentalize my arguments with people, my criticism of them, and my responses to them without it impacting my general view and like of them. But afterward, when I'm done saying whatever shit I have to spew onto the screen, I sometimes pause and think "shit, is that other person -- is patrick or alex or drew or that other GB user that I was replying to going to realize where I'm coming from? Are they going to feel hurt by my tone? Are they going to understand that I can have a vigorous back and forth with them or pick their comment apart without it being personal and that in twenty minutes I'll be having a totally different conversation with the same person in another thread and an entirely different tone?!".
A lot of that is communicating over the internet. A lot of that is just me being a shitty internet person. I guess you try to balance things and hope others try to balance things and not take them too seriously or literally . . . and hope we all meet on the other side and shake hands. I certainly hope that nothing I ever say on here (or elsewhere, for that matter) makes someone go home at the end of the day and hate their job. If I knew I contributed to that, I would probably shut the fuck up, because nothing I might throw into a conversation here is worth ruining someone's day.
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