Need help finding a game type!

Hey guys this is going to be hard to explain but bear with me.

So im looking for a game where I have my own kingdom/village/castle and it progresses and gets larger and better but at the same time I have to defend from werewolfs/goblins/orcs/monsters attacking my village/villages/kingdom and also have to defend from other human invaders. But I also have to recruit soldiers to defend

(the / thing is to show it could be any of those or all of them)

Dwarf Fortress?

@thomasnash: way complicated

Game of Dwarves and Impire? Both fairly simple and mostly what you want to do.