@marokai: I can understand some frustration about how discussion of social topics in gaming is more prominent now than it ever was. Though, imagine how frustrating it must have been for years and years for people to not feel like they could address those concerns at all. I can assure you this is as or more tiresome to have to deal with, but things are not just going to get better on their own.
This isn't about all sites having to talk about the same things; it's any sites being able to decide they want to talk about something if they want to. It's me or someone else being able to make a thread or blog post expressing an opinion on a game or story and not be told we should just stop talking about it because gaming is "supposed to be fun". A lot of people want everywhere within the gaming community to fit the mold it used to be in where their idea of "fun" was maintained at every level, and that's simply not the direction gaming is going. Our fun matters, too.
I think sites should be able to decide for themselves, and if you agree, then I don't see what the problem is. A lot of people seem mad that sites -have- decided for themselves, but their decisions haven't been to their liking. Once outlets realized they could actually address opinions and concerns that challenged gaming, a great deal of them have gone in that direction. By their choice. You can have your own site that doesn't talk about that part of gaming if you want, but no one can force the majority of sites to back down from being what they've chosen to be. Most gaming news and coverage is still around every possible thing but social topics, but those do pop up on occasion and get a lot of attention. That's not the end of the world as many act like it is.
As you said, this isn't a war; though, many as of late have acted as though they need a war to "take back our hobby". I think those people would be better served taking your advice. Support sites and communities they like and talk about what they want to talk about. Don't force gaming news writers and entertainers to back down from expressing their opinions about things. Don't imply that a gaming news writer is corrupt or evil just because they care about things you don't care as much about or feel ways you don't feel about the games you like. A lot of people seem okay with dismissive comments on topics like this, but once someone says they think there may be something to a concern, that's when someone is out of line and forcing their views on everyone.
Even just speaking of Giant Bomb, a relatively awesome place, there is still strong pushback for expressing that you may care about the treatment of women or social aspects of games. I know it's the only thing I've ever gotten death threats and harassment about here. And that's on Giant Bomb, not even just on some place like Twitter. I don't think the discussion is that diversity has already won and we're just cleaning up. It's that it's still hard to talk about these kinds of things anywhere without strong resistance. I'm a gamer and duder here, and I deserve to be able to talk about things I care about in gaming just as much as you. But because of my views being different, some people think it warrants attacking me or people like me.
Almost every time I've come out and talked about women in gaming or how we can make games even better, I've had someone reach out to me and say something like, "Thanks. I wish I didn't feel afraid to be open about this," or "The last time I piped up, people just insulted me and I don't want that again." And that hurts. That's the frame of reference I've had for the last few years, and I can tell you it's even worse elsewhere. No duder should have to feel like they aren't welcome just because of their sex, gender, race, religion, or nationality. This is the gaming community and a gaming site, and it should be possible for all of us to have fun.
Unfortunately, a forceful subsection of the gaming community continue to act like they own gaming, and developers and press should only do what they want them to do. Before the last few years, that subsection was most of what I saw in the gaming community. They were the subsection that companies pandered to, and they came to define what a "gamer" looked like. For years it seemed like I and others were only allowed as long as we did our best to fit in.
But then people started talking more. Concerns that many had were finally being shared. And oddly enough, some prominent people in the press even seemed to share those concerns. Now, it feels like we can actually express ourselves and talk about things. It's still not easy, as some people make sure discussions spiral out of control quickly or feel like such topics are grounds for treating others like crap. But it's something worth standing up for and continuing to work at. We can get it right and strike a good balance.
For all the gamers I've known and the gaming that I care so much about, I don't mind catching a little flack if it may mean more in the diverse audience of gaming fans can feel like they can be a part of it, too. I can't say all efforts to improve gaming and the community are perfect, but I'm glad many people are continuing to try to make gaming communities a better place for the wide variety of people who enjoy games.
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