WHats a good game that has no killing?

Buy a Wii.
 
Okay, and play Endless Ocean: Blue World. I love that game.

" Burnout Paradise  Batman: Arkham Asylum (Batman NEVER kills anyone) "

Tch, what's wrong with killing in games? People get killed in movies, books, TV shows...

have your G/F play bejeweled 2, but be forewarned most all females love that game and become crazy addicted, she might steal your game time haha, also Geometry Wars 2, I don't know if shooting shapes counts as killing, but there is no blood, just crazy hallucinogenic colors lol. Sims is another one most females tend to spend a lot of time with.

" Portal. 
Pikman.  "

" World of goo, sim tower (its an old game but still awesome), sim city 4, burnout paradise (do u really every see anyone die?), fifa 09 (potentially all sports games, i prefer football though) "

" Peggle. I fucking love balls and Unicorns.    And you know you do too. "

Sports games, racing games, Viva Pinata and music games are things that come to mind. When you kill someone or something, you automatically get a sense of accomplishment or dominance, which is what I think is the reason why games usually involve killing. In the other games this is achieved by being number one in the race, winning the match, hitting all the notes and breeding your Pinatas.

Flower
World of Goo 
Pixel Junk Eden
Trials HD
LBP
Flow  (I know things die but come on)
Myst series (although I've wanted to kill people when struggling with some of those puzzles)
90% of Wii games

Flower
Burnout  Paradise
Shatter

Basketball. Unless your playing with Ron Artest. 

most puzzle games,

Hexic 1 & 2

Rock Band
 
Also, Portal does have killing...of you.  Many, many times throughout the game.

VIVA PI... oh wait no.

sam &  max

Tony Hawk Pro Skater 3 (remember when the series was good?)
 
And I don't recall any killing (violence, yes) in Simpsons Hit & Run.

Flower.

NAAAAH NAH NAH NAH NAH NAH NAh NAH NAH KATAMARI DAMACYYYYYY

Yes, monkey island games.

" Flower. "

Basically any sports game
Rhythm games
Metal Gear Solid 2 onwards, if you do a no-kill run.

" HARVEST MOON!  "

doom 3

batman: arkhum asylum, batman does not kill people he just knocks them unconscious

"Rapelay "

Sonic. You're freeing small animals from robotic cages.

The Sims, Pokemon, Batman: Arkaham Asylum (non-lethal combat), the Tropico games, Ignition (The only awesome car game out there :3), just about every single sports and car game ever made, guitar hero and all of his bastard sons, world of goo, tons of old arcade classics such as tetris and whatnot... and not to forget the Rollercoaster Tycoon and all the Tycoon games in general.

just go by esrb rating no violence 
 
in reality though to sell her on the games you have to know the person and what they would like, and/or what they have tried and liked or not liked and work from that. 
 
there are many good games that are not about violence and death, but most people in forums buy mature games and are generally all about the death and violence (outside the occasional racing and sports game) 
  
the real question is it solo or coop / versus play your after / she's after 
 
that should help you narrow down. I think throwing a bunch of gender stereotype games at her is a very bad call, show her a range and ask her questions about why and what that she has liked or not liked. genres is a good starting point.
 
oh and for the record dudes in batman do get registered as deceased... when you detective scan them, just not all of them.

Rogue Warrior.

" @Zenaxzd said:

" Ace Attorney series Pokemon Portal (as mentioned already) Katamari Music games "Tycoon" games, Roller Coaster/Prison etc. Puzzle games, Tetris, Bejeweled, Peggle, etc. Anything involving Rabbids. Racing games  "

Bro every Ace Attorney case starts with a murder. "

Mario?

Eh ... why isn't your girlfriend playing The Sims? That has no killing and will change her point of view. The Sims is girlfriend crack. She'll be too busy playing it to even bother criticizing gaming.

" Eh ... why isn't your girlfriend playing The Sims? That has no killing and will change her point of view. The Sims is girlfriend crack. She'll be too busy playing it to even bother criticizing gaming. "

Umm....  Wait I can do this.... Forza Motorsport 3 is great.  If yer not into cars or racing them then I'd suggest Audiosurf.  If music or riding yer music isn't yer thing then... try... Portal? 
 
Or Rez HD.  there aren't many games man...

" "Mirror's Edge" you are encouraged to not kill anyone. But I'm not sure if it's exactly possible. "

" @Matthew said:

" Portal. 
Pikman.  "

Pikmin has savage killing dude haha "

" Basically any sports game Rhythm games Metal Gear Solid 2 onwards, if you do a no-kill run. "

Manhunt 1 and 2.

POKEMON

" Dawn of Discovery with pirates turned off. "

Little Big Planet.

I remember Herdy Gerdy had no killing. But, that game wasn't that good.

As a few other people have said, Animal Crossing would be my choice. The games are my guilty pleasure and the one on the DS is a very solid title.