@deathstriker said:
@davidmerrick: We'll have to agree to disagree. I never called them sluts, I just thought it was tacky. To me, it's almost like a black person doing a video about racism while wearing a Mad Max Mel Gibson shirt without them realizing how that's ironic.
I understood where you were going with that. It's absolutely not a coincidence that the female media presence (in gaming and otherwise) is mostly attractive women. Still, I truly despise this oversexualization of women. It seems like every internet thumbnail has some pretty woman on it to try to drive clicks and every ad is some "is this bikini too small" crap, and that's sickening. I'd like to think we're better than that, but we clearly aren't. However, you have to consider the female willingness to participate in this stuff as well. For example, it was no accident that the Marketing classes I took in Business school were filled with hot girls. Why? The answer is because we're a beauty culture, and there are sadly careers to be had largely out of simply being pretty.
It's a two-way street. I greatly lament that women are judged on their appearance more than anything else, as well as how this has led to the proliferation of "sex sells" marketing being pretty much everywhere these days. On the one hand, you've got companies basically whoring out women, and that's deplorable. On the other hand, you've got women knowingly signing up for it, and that's also deplorable. Essentially, if a woman willfully 1) chooses a field where appearance is a large portion of it and 2) wears tight/skimpy clothing on camera in said field, any outcry against sexism rings pretty damn hollow. I'm not saying they can't wear that stuff or that they aren't entitled to an opinion, but if they're going to pretty much play a bimbo role to some degree, complaints about sexism fall a bit flat.
For the record, I truly feel for women in media. I can't imagine how much of a beating it is for the women who simply want to do their job and have the focus be on their work, only to have the response be a constant barrage of pervy stuff if they're attractive (or hateful stuff if they aren't). That flat-out sucks. However, there is also an entirely different faction of women who are more than happy to do little more than read off a cue card and be ogled. I don't pay enough attention to Polygon to make any kind of judgment as to where the girls in the OP fall on this spectrum (probably somewhere in the middle), but I certainly get where @deathstriker was coming from.
Additionally, I take issue with that for a supposed issue regarding female characters, we've got two females covering it. I mean, obviously a female perspective is valuable here, but if that's all we get, it makes it seem a bit self-serving. Let's hear multiple perspectives. Make it a conversation, not an editorial. Should a female or females be included in that conversation? Absolutely. Should they be the only ones who get to have an opinion on the matter? No. Just gather some folks from the office and have an honest conversation about it. If this topic arises on an organizational level of "here, women, you cover this women stuff", or the flipside of that on a personal level with "I am woman, hear me roar about this women stuff", it's upsetting either way, IMO.
I digress. Overall, I think this "-ism" stuff is wildly overblown, and I'd contend the motivations behind it are typically less than pure. These motives seem to fall in one of three categories (or combination thereof): 1) Media outlet invents/piles on perceived slight because controversial stuff gets clicks, 2) egotistical writer wants to put him/herself on a pedestal as a moral crusader whose progressiveness everyone should aspire to and admire, and/or 3) writer from supposedly slighted demographic who only gives a shit because it's their demographic. I think this stuff hurts us on the whole. It reduces people to being defined by what they are instead of who they are. I'm not on board with that.
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