No, I mean you kind of ignored how you got to the end. Being shy means you're likely to avoid social situations (or at least avoid putting yourself in them), and an active love/sex life requires placing oneself in a social situation. There's a lot of middle that needs to be covered.
@Video_Game_King: For example. You are a high schooler boy who is bad at making friends or talking to people. Because of that, you ignore social interactions. One day you see a girl, alone and get the feeling that she might be just like you. You try to talk to her to see if your hunch is right or not. It turns out she is not so great at socializing either.
Because of that you two have a greater chance building a relationship due to your anti-social status.
My definition for being shy or socially inactive is that to interact with a very few people, but none.
You are a high schooler boy who is bad at making friends or talking to people.
I am not! I'm a centuries old King who is bad at making friends or talking to people.
But seriously, the scenario you described sounds too dependent on luck to be replicable/recommended. It's not like the kid took any steps to meet that girl. They just stumbled upon each other.
You are a high schooler boy who is bad at making friends or talking to people.
I am not! I'm a centuries old King who is bad at making friends or talking to people.
But seriously, the scenario you described sounds too dependent on luck to be replicable/recommended. It's not like the kid took any steps to meet that girl. They just stumbled upon each other.
i am a virgin, and I will probably be for all my life. But I am not bothered about it anymore.I am 21 now and I dont give a shit anymore.
Little early to be giving up, isn't it?
Well, if he legitimately no longer cares about it it might not actually be giving up. However, I'm sure anyone can get creative if they sincerely want to lose their virginity...
@FluxWaveZ: I'm not saying I'm giving up per se. There was a time when I had all sorts of fazes from trying to change myself to trying to convince myself that I don't need a gf.
But in the last few years I forgot about it, and thats pretty much it. I lost a ton of weight and I am not nearly as shy as I once was (still am a bit shy) but I just never thought about sex and gfs since.
I still stay in doors during most of my free time so I don't get exposed to meeting new people, but I don't have a problem socialising. It's just that 19 years of staying indoors away from people made me not like hanging out.
I do have a job, so it's not like I stay at home all day, but I mean that when I get out of work or in week-ends I just stay at home playing games.
@FluxWaveZ: You don't even need to be creative, just motivated. If you can't attract women, you probably know some of your flaws that get in the way. You probably know ways to overcome those flaws. Most people are just too lazy or scared or complacent to correct them.
@Wrighteous86: I suppose I agree with that, but you make it sounds like those flaws can always be easily rectified. I can imagine that it takes an incredible amount of effort for some people to rid themselves of their most undesirable personality traits, which in turn leads them to abandon their pursuit of a relationship and possibly end up like the few who believe they can only find love in fictional characters e.g. "otakus" and their "waifus".
@Alexandru: Straying a bit off topic, but if you're fine with the way you are then I don't see an issue with your behavior. I have practically never had an interest in having a relationship and I don't really socialize with people so it'd be a rather difficult thing to achieve even if I desired one. Also, indoors > outside.
Do you hate having to find girls on your own? And what about all those expensive dates? Giant Bomb got me laid, and it can do the same for you! Only $59.99 a year! It's so easy to buy! Call now!
(Wish I could've found the Brad version of this...)
Brad doesn't have a girl advice hotline he only has a party hotline
Bloody nonsense. Its really not hard to be shy, a gamer and still have a active love/sex life but it takes effort, just like getting your S-ranks.
I'm just gonna say something that you'll probably disagree with, but whatever: It's leagues upon leagues easier if you're a girl.
The ugliest woman in the world could still get laid with little effort. The ugliest man, however, would probably need max charisma or 999,999,999 zenny in the bank. That's a much harder goal.
@LikeaSsur: Oh no, I completely agree with that actually. Girl walks into a bar and says: who wants to do me? And she has her pick. Guy does that and he ends up in a cell.
@LikeaSsur: Oh no, I completely agree with that actually. Girl walks into a bar and says: who wants to do me? And she has her pick. Guy does that and he ends up in a cell.
Gota love it.
I wish I'd been told this before last weekend...my cell mates were NOT gentle. Not at all.
Bloody nonsense. Its really not hard to be shy, a gamer and still have a active love/sex life but it takes effort, just like getting your S-ranks.
I'm just gonna say something that you'll probably disagree with, but whatever: It's leagues upon leagues easier if you're a girl. The ugliest woman in the world could still get laid with little effort. The ugliest man, however, would probably need max charisma or 999,999,999 zenny in the bank. That's a much harder goal.
A moderately unattractive girl could still get laid with little effort. I don't know about an ugly girl. Guys are much more shallow and hung up on looks.
While the more attractive you are, the easier it is, attractiveness is lower than charisma and personality on what gets you laid with a girl. I know more ugly guys that know how to chat up a girl that get laid than good looking guys with no personality that do. Maybe that's an outlier, though.
@Wrighteous86: Personally for me its all about presentation. No need to be Johnny Depp but having his charm helps! I rather be entertained and feel appreciated than meeting a guy who puts more time in his looks than his lines. I also wouldn't mind being able to call such a guy again, instead of the 'cool and boasting' kinda guy.
I don't know about an ugly girl. Guys are much more shallow and hung up on looks.
While this is true, we're also a bunch of testosterone filled horn dogs filled with stories of pride and sexual conquest. Also, alcohol on numerous occasions.
Do you hate having to find girls on your own? And what about all those expensive dates? Giant Bomb got me laid, and it can do the same for you! Only $59.99 a year! It's so easy to buy! Call now!
(Wish I could've found the Brad version of this...)
You know, they could make this thing a member stream. They have the call-in technology and it's not much sillier than Giant Bomb is The New Wikipedia.
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