Have you ever heard that saying? Where if you be too nice to a girl your interested in. She'll end up taking advantage of you or see you only as a friend. That's pretty much what happen to a friend of mine. He was in a relationship with a girl from high school.
He love her he would do anything for her. Buy her nice things, give her money, take her places, he paid for her medical bills when she was sick, everything. One time he even save her from getting raped by her abusive ex boyfriend crazy friends. He got he's asswhipped badly but he was glad that he helped her.
One day when I was at he's house. He was talking about marrying her, starting a family and taking her on a trip. I told him that I felt like she was using you and you shouldn't trust her. He didn't believe me and just ignored what I said. Later on that day we went to the mall to go to gamestop.
On are way to gamestop. We spot he's girlfriend making out with her ex abusive boyfriend at one of the stores in the mall. My friend flip the fuck out started yelling and rush towards the guy. Until the guy showed he was packing a gun. He's girlfriend started crying saying she was sorry and other stuff. The ex boyfriend laughed and said I own her.
I had to hold my friend to keep him from rushing towards the guy. After the ex boyfriend stop talking shit he left with my friends girlfriend, and sense that day he never seen her again. He hasn't been the same sense.