I was held up a gunpoint last night at work. I'm going to see a counselor tomorrow but I don't know how I'm supposed to deal with it.
Has anyone ever had some kind of traumatic experience? What happened and how did you deal with it?
I had a gun held to my face last night
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i was shot in the leg three years ago. drive-by shooting. wrong place, wrong time.
hope you can cope duder. *brohug*
Damn, man. My roommate (white boy like me) recently had a gun pointed at his face, as well. The circumstances may have been slightly different, though. The girl was crazy and he was really drunk at the time. I would have pissed all over the place if it was me. I gotta ask, though, for my own selfish curiosity, how old are you?
I can teach you have to disarm a gun to get over it. It's definently possible and it might help you get over it at the very least. That's my advice, learn how to disarm guns and if they only want your money, you did the right thing by giving it to them.
"WowI can teach you have to disarm one, oh wait, your a hater, i'm not going to help you.
@HitmanAgent47: It's easy to talk about disarming someone until you have a gun shoved in your face and you're right in the middle of the situation. Get back to me when it's happened to you and tell me you were able to disarm the guy.
" @DrPockets000: Keep talking, I disarm guns throughout the year in my training and I can do it automatically from almost any angle. I have disarmed guns hundreds of times pointed at my face in training. I even am trained in 3rd party protection of others like a bodyguard. I wouldn't be surprised if axxol can do it too, I mean he's trained in the military. Maybe the only way you can get over that situation is to learn it yourself too. "I'm going to go ahead and say that "training" is a lot different than a real life scenario.
"can you teach me how to disarm demonsI can teach you have to disarm one, oh wait, your a hater, i'm not going to help you. It's definently possible and it might help you get over it at the very least. That's my advice, learn how to disarm guns and if they only want your money, you did the right thing by giving it to them.
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" @DrPockets000:, I was offering to help you get over your fear, but over the years, you treated me like crap and pretended you were better than me in terms of relationships advice so good luck with your therapy. "i had my suspicions but i think at this point we can officially call it.
troll.
That's really harsh man, I'm sorry to hear that. I can't say I'd be able to understand your situation, because I have no clue how I'd react myself, but it would definitely be traumatizing. The only advice I can really offer is kind of cheesy: Find the silver lining with the trauma and just try to appreciate life all that much more.
@DeShawn2ks: I was working. He stuck the gun in my face and told me to open the register.
Glad you're alive dude,get a gun,level the playing field for the future man...i know it might seem crazy,but we live in a crazy world,obviously.
I've had a gun pointed at my face back when I was 14.
I was down at the gas station close to where I lived at the time, buying cigarets and a coke when some guy decided to rob the gas station while I was in there.
My and the girl behind the counter were the only people in there when he came in and he came from behind and threw me to the ground and then pointed his gun at men while odering the girl to give him all the money they had. He got the money and left again right after that. So I had to sit around and wait for the police to show up so I could describe how the guy looked under the ski mask.
Yeah, the police thing I have see-through-fabric vision.
@DrPockets000: Good luck putting this all behind you. I'm sure you'll be able to do it sooner than you think. It'll make for an interesting story one day.
@HitmanAgent47: It's thinking like that that get's people shot. For your own god damned safety don't do that. Fuck, even if you think you could disarm him, consider the risk to reward ratio for one damn second.
Glad you are safe.Must've sucked.
Next time, bring a shotgun to work, drill a hole in your desk, and position it so that when you pull the trigger, the guy's balls decorate the room.
Edit: And good luck putting this behind you, hope you can do it quickly and painlessly.
"Obviously trying to disarm a dude holding a gun in your face is the best course of action. Even more if they are drug addicts. Whats the worst that could happen?I can teach you have to disarm one, oh wait, your a hater, i'm not going to help you. It's definently possible and it might help you get over it at the very least. That's my advice, learn how to disarm guns and if they only want your money, you did the right thing by giving it to them.
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"@HitmanAgent47: It's thinking like that that get's people shot. For your own god damned safety don't do that. Fuck, even if you think you could disarm him, consider the risk to reward ratio for one damn second. "If he's able to do it I think he at least should give it a try.
@ZeForgotten: In the days following this, how did you respond? How did you cope?
This guy just came around the corner with his handgun. It all happened so fast and it keeps replaying in my head.
" @Axxol: you know how to disarm guns too right? I use metal guns but we can't load them with stuff but we can still fire it at least. No one uses rubber guns these days because it doesn't feel like a real gun. However sure you don't see it comming is assassinations. You see it comming because they are demanding something from you, whether for money, information or to take you to another place before they even consider killing you. At this point, you have a chance if you know what to do because most ppl takes a full second and a half, meaning you have just enough time to do a technique if it's good. If you think training doesn't help ppl, then they really shouldn't train at all in militaries to disarm by your logic. "I never said that training never helped. I'm not going to get into a debate over this.
" I've had a gun pointed at my face back when I was 14. I was down at the gas station close to where I lived at the time, buying cigarets and a coke when some guy decided to rob the gas station while I was in there. My and the girl behind the counter were the only people in there when he came in and he came from behind and threw me to the ground and then pointed his gun at men while odering the girl to give him all the money they had. He got the money and left again right after that. So I had to sit around and wait for the police to show up so I could describe how the guy looked under the ski mask. Yeah, the police thing I have see-through-fabric vision. "Wait, you were buying cigarettes when you were 14?
@dudeglove: We do not have one of those. As you hypothesize, there was indeed a counter between us that would have made cool martial arts very ineffective.
It was like that for some time but I already had help from the start since the police(i guess) set me up with someone I could talk to. It took a little over 3 month to get over it enough so that I now can actually put on foot inside a gas station without freaking out. Sure there's stille something in the back of my mind poking at me whenever I have to go in that same gas station but it's been years since it happened and nothing has happened since then. But having one to talk to about it did help a lot.
You're gonna go over it a lot of times still but eventually with the right amount of help you'll getter better.
Sorry to hear about your story but I'm just glad that you're ok and that nobody else got hurt
@canucks23: Yup, then minimum age for buying cigarets didn't excist when I was 14.
It only showed up a couple of years ago so now you have to be 18 to buy cigarets.
16 for alchol.
Denmark is a weird country
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