About a month ago, I started a new job working with a great group of people. All of my co-workers are nice, but there is one who has been a little too nice. This woman (I'll call her Grace) has been flirting with me since my first day on the job. At first, it was incredibly light, but then it progressed to the point where I pretend that I'm swamped with paperwork just to keep her from bothering me. The problem with Grace is that she's big; not large, but certainly not petite. I don't mind a little meat on a woman's bones, I just don't want to be with a woman who doesn't take care of herself. It's unhealthy and I feel no physical attraction to that. Not to mention that she asks me how I think she looks in her dress. I usually say that the dress looks nice, and she walks away with puppy eyes because I didn't say she looked pretty in it.
This isn't the first time that a big girl has hit on me; for some reason, they're attracted to me. I have had an old classmate try the whole "let's go to an art exhibit" line and I tried to say no in the nicest way possible. Of course with my lack of tact, me turning someone down comes off as rude.
So my question is, how does a person with no tact tell this woman to back off? I don't want to make it awkward in the workplace when I tell Grace that I'm not interested. And I also have a feeling that she's going to ask me why I don't want her. A part of me really wants to be an asshole and be done with it, but I want to avoid seeing that creepy puppy-eyed face she makes.
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