Is it wrong to say hello to strangers?

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#1  Edited By RE_Player1

I take the bus to my school and recently I said hi to a complete stranger and she was pretty rude. I was the only person on the bus for a couple stops and than this girl got on, she looked like she was 18 or 19, and she sat right across from me. She looked directly at me when she sat down so I said hi... she said don't talk to me you creep... I was somewhat stunned and just looked out the window. Is it wrong to say hi to people we don't know or are people today just uptight? 

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#2  Edited By HandsomeDead

Ouch. That's a weird response. Admittedly, I've never spoken to anyone on public transport at home but in America, particularly in New York, there was never a time when I was on the subway and a conversation didn't start.

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#3  Edited By oatz

I thought about this recently. I was sitting at a bus stop at around 01:00 AM after a party, where I greeted/was greeted by people I didn't know who also came to the bus stop. Not necessarily because anyone was drunk (although I sorta was), just in general. It seems to be far more common where I live during the night.

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#4  Edited By SethPhotopoulos

No.  i do it.  Or do the head nod thing.

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#5  Edited By ryanwho

When you make eye contact its kind of good form to say something, unless you're in a shitty part of town.

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#6  Edited By daiphyer

Wrong? No. Sometimes weird? Yes.

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#7  Edited By alistercat

That is very rude. That said, on my first day of my final year of University last week a kid looked at me and said Hi as he was walking past me in the hall and I thought he was super creepy. He looked very shy, and although I didn't give a response I felt like it was certainly a bit weird. But he was weird. For girls though I expect it to be more of an issue because they're worried about being hit on.

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#8  Edited By Sambambo

If you are drunk then no its fine. If you are sober then yes.

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#9  Edited By Coombs

Depends, 
Do you say hello with your penis?

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#10  Edited By Skytylz

In that situation, I'd say it was fine and it usually is.

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#11  Edited By Djeffers03

People be nasty! I often say "Alright?", "Hi" or give a head nod when I walk past someone. That said I live in a well of area of England, not a city. 
 
And no, of course I don't do it in the middle of town, I mean if Im walking past someone on say a country road.

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@RE_Player92:  That's fucking weird, man.  Guess you look like a total creeper. jk 
 
But in all seriousness, yeah, more often than not, I just do @SethPhotopoulos said:
"  the head nod thing. "
.  But saying hi should definitely be acceptable. More likely than not she was having a bad day, or just had something bad happen to her.  People act weird for a reason.
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That's a misnomer, her reaction. Seems totally uncalled for. It's definitely not wrong to greet someone or whatever. I'm more reserved, though, so I typically just give a tight-lipped smile or something. 

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#14  Edited By Praab_NZ

People are idiots for no reason, its part of life. Keep being friendly untill someone responds by shooting you or stealing your wallet, or both :D. 
Then of course you go all Punisher on them.

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#15  Edited By Glak

You didn't do anything wrong 
She was probably just a bitch, there's nothing wrong with saying hi

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#16  Edited By meteora

Its not wrong at all, unless you look like a pedophile or a rapist or something. But it is awkward, people normally are taught not to talk to other strangers.

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#17  Edited By SlightConfuse

yea if i make i contact with a person in the hallway or bus i usually nod or say hi

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#18  Edited By Jimbo

Some broads just think their shit stinks of cinnamon.  The best response when they pull something like that is to pretend you are trying not to laugh at them - this gives you an aloof air of superiority which they will find infuriating, and it'll probably ruin their day.

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#19  Edited By Vonocourt

There's nothing wrong with a hello. The only thing wrong was her response, unless you gave her a long glance while she sat down...Then that could be kind of creepy.

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#20  Edited By danpat177

when im out with mates we say hi to everyone its fun seeing whos a cunt and whos not :) 
then again we also talk to homless people about sex  
 
good times :)

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#21  Edited By jdquach

Saying hello to a complete stranger can be weird, but I was raised in a house where it's common courtesy to greet people and be friendly.  So I usually do the head nod if me and a stranger's eyes meet. 

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#22  Edited By ghad13

It feels really awkward if I don't nod or something when I make eye contact with someone. She most likely is a stuck up chick and just assumes everyone is hitting on her when they say hi. 

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Sounds like she wanted you to say something so she could be a bitch.

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#24  Edited By RE_Player1
@InfamousBIG: I'll try the head nod next time :P
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#25  Edited By OllyOxenFree
@RE_Player92 said:
" she said don't talk to me you creep  "
What the fuck... 
 
Bitches and whores.
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#26  Edited By halberdierv2
@Hylianhero1991 said:
" Saying hello to a complete stranger can be weird, but I was raised in a house where it's common courtesy to greet people and be friendly.  So I usually do the head nod if me and a stranger's eyes meet.  "
same here, and its usually common courtesy in the society here than just my house.
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#27  Edited By crusader8463

Depends on where you live. When I lived down in the states for several months every time I said hi to people they acted like I just told them to go fuck themselves. Back here in Canada though we say hi to strangers all the time. Generally if we are in a situation like you mentioned in the OP, where we make eye contact, we just smile/nod and say hello.

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#28  Edited By SethPhotopoulos
@OllyOxenFree said:
" @RE_Player92 said:
" she said don't talk to me you creep  "
What the fuck...   Bitches and whores. "
 There you go.
 There you go.
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#29  Edited By RE_Player1
@crusader8463 said:

" Depends on where you live. When I lived down in the states for several months every time I said hi to people they acted like I just told them to go fuck themselves. Back here in Canada though we say hi to strangers all the time. Generally if we are in a situation like you mentioned in the OP, where we make eye contact, we just smile/nod and say hello. "

The sad thing is I am in Canada... I thought people were more friendly here :P 
@OllyOxenFree said:

" @RE_Player92 said:

" she said don't talk to me you creep  "
What the fuck...   Bitches and whores. "
Exactly man. Bros before hoes lol
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#30  Edited By crusader8463
@RE_Player92:  Like I said it all depends on where you live. When I go into the larger cities around here they start acting like the Americans too. Not as bad as the ones I met, but noticeably worse then the average person around where I live. I  think it's something to do with city life that makes people into cunts.
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#31  Edited By Vonocourt
@RE_Player92 said:
"  
@OllyOxenFree said:

" @RE_Player92 said:

" she said don't talk to me you creep  "
What the fuck...   Bitches and whores. "
Exactly man. Bros before hoes lol "  
My roommate's mantra, "Fuck bitches, get money, buy lokis."
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#32  Edited By blackbird415

I say hi to strangers all the time. I wave to people alot too out of joyful goofiness. Some people are just really rude and defensive.

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#33  Edited By SethPhotopoulos
@Vonocourt said:
" @RE_Player92 said:
"  
@OllyOxenFree said:

" @RE_Player92 said:

" she said don't talk to me you creep  "
What the fuck...   Bitches and whores. "
Exactly man. Bros before hoes lol "  
My roommate's mantra, "Fuck bitches, get money, buy lokis." "

 I am rolling with these pics.
 I am rolling with these pics.
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#34  Edited By Vonocourt
@SethPhotopoulos:  
Him and his friend had a "Disregard Females, acquire Currency" competition one night. First one to get a girl to sit down next to them would when eighteen cents. 
 
These guys sound way cooler and funnier on paper...
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#35  Edited By MrKlorox

Wrong? Fuck no. It's wrong to ignore or be rude to strangers when they say hi.
 
Here in the south it's considered impolite to not say hi or nod when you're the only two people in a room.

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@RE_Player92: That's really fucking strange, bro. Her, that is. Not you. If I'm walking past someone (like 1 on 1, not on a busy street) then I'll generally smile and say hello or the like. Not enough people are polite.
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#37  Edited By jkz
@Jimbo said:
" Some broads just think their shit stinks of cinnamon.  The best response when they pull something like that is to pretend you are trying not to laugh at them - this gives you an aloof air of superiority which they will find infuriating, and it'll probably ruin their day. "
I dunno, I've had a couple people respond that way, and usually I am trying to suppress laughter; there's no need to pretend.
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#38  Edited By andrela

Someone was rude in Canada? .... I've lost all faith in humanity

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#39  Edited By MrKlorox
@Andrela said:
" Someone was rude in Canada? .... I've lost all faith in humanity "
I've run into more than one set of Canadians online who were complete and total fucking dicks to me because I have a southern accent.
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#40  Edited By andrela
@MrKlorox said:
" @Andrela said:
" Someone was rude in Canada? .... I've lost all faith in humanity "
I've run into more than one set of Canadians online who were complete and total fucking dicks to me because I have a southern accent. "
Yes but this is Canadians being rude to eachother ! (or at least I assume it is), which is unthinkable
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#41  Edited By Skillface

I bike around a lot, and usually give a half-smile and a nod. I live in the Ottawa suburbs though, I can see that being different if you're in downtown Montreal/lToronto, I dunno.

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#42  Edited By bulletzing

I think it depends. The girl was looking at you so if I was you, I would have done the same thing. Maybe she just has a bad attitude. 

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#43  Edited By Bigheart711

It really depends on the person.

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#44  Edited By damnboyadvance

It's not weird. It can just make for awkward situations. If you want to talk, don't start with hello. Start smaller.

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#45  Edited By bybeach

If she looked directly at me I would maybe put on a little with a shy smile and a nod...maybe a short hi. without long eye contact Or I could jump up rip off my pants and  proclaim I'm that famous golfer, but I'd sense that would be a huge fail. And really out of character for me anyways. So slightly not so feigned shyness and a smile. 
 
I think the way she jumped on you was wrong. Someone stares at you, especially a lady, you want to communicate you are friendly, safe, and not a golfer. she was probably sizing you up to see if you were a dick (figuratively) and a damned bit more bitchy than she needed to be, though I would understand.
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#46  Edited By TheFreeMan

It's not wrong. Though, it can feel a bit odd to have someone you don't know greet you. I was sitting on the bus bench waiting for my ride after classes when some guy that I've never said anything to ever before (but who was in my class) walks by and says "See you later dude". I was looking down at my phone so I was really surprised but I managed to do a head-nod. It's really a sign how disconnected everyone is from other people, nowadays, I guess. When I walk past folks on backroads or something like that I'll do a nod or smile or something, though.

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#47  Edited By T0mF5

 Did she look like this?
 Did she look like this?
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#48  Edited By ptys
@RE_Player92: Not at all, good on you! It's funny I live in Sydney where no-one ever says hi and I've been working out in a rural area for a little bit and people are so welcoming that they'll wave hi to you from the street if you are driving past them in a car?! Crazy. Also good on you for having the guts to say hi to a girl you don't know, next time you might not come across a bitch and find yourself a good conversation so don't be discouraged.
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#50  Edited By jasta

I work in Tesco, and they pay me to talk to strangers.