Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Probably back in high school. I asked a girl to prom, she said she wanted to go with someone else, so I asked another girl who said yes. I've been dating my current gf since freshman year in college. Coming up on our 3rd year anniversary in August.
By the way, SSValis, you should probably put your real experience on here before asking other people for theirs.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Is that a personal choice or is it a confidence thing, if you don't mind me asking.
Back in high school, sophomore year I think. A year after that I asked a girl out and was sure I was going to be rejected, but we're still dating two years later.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
I wish this didn't apply to me as well.
Want to do that "If we are still single by 40 we will try the gay thing and see if that works out?" If you turn me down then I guess that will be my first turn down for the OPs question.
Man, I guess back in high school. I liked this girl for a while. She was in to my too, but I just took to long, like way to long, so she moved on before I finally asked her on a real date. And when I did, she was like, well I think I'm busy. Looking back it just makes me laugh. Ahh, high school, such good times.
Generally though, and this is not something that I'm necessarily proud of, but since then when I ask a girl out, I only do it if I am almost positive they will say yes.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
I wish this didn't apply to me as well.
Want to do that "If we are still single by 40 we will try the gay thing and see if that works out?" If you turn me down then I guess that will be my first turn down for the OPs question.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Is that a personal choice or is it a confidence thing, if you don't mind me asking.
Look at his avatar; it all makes sense.
just a few extra lbs my man, shed a few and you'll be looking good.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Is that a personal choice or is it a confidence thing, if you don't mind me asking.
Honestly a big mix of both. I have had self esteem issues my entire life, but the main reason I never try can be summed up in two main reasons. I have never meet some one I cared about or liked enough to want to try for, and that my life is so screwed up and pathetic that even if I did find someone I really cared about who would accept and care about me as much as I them, I wouldn't want them to have anything to do with someone like me. Them just choosing to be with me would make me drive them away, because I cared about them so much that I would want something better for them then to be stuck with me.
Girl I worked with when I was 16, had a bit of a crush on her but she wasn't interested. Haven't been shot down since, but in saying that I'm 26 and in a 8 years and counting relationship.
For the record, my fiancée came onto me; I was oblivious to the idea that she might like me, although with the benefit of hindsight our friendship was rife with sexual tension.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
I wish this didn't apply to me as well.
Want to do that "If we are still single by 40 we will try the gay thing and see if that works out?" If you turn me down then I guess that will be my first turn down for the OPs question.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Is that a personal choice or is it a confidence thing, if you don't mind me asking.
Honestly a big mix of both. I have had self esteem issues my entire life, but the main reason I never try can be summed up in two main reasons. I have never meet some one I cared about or liked enough to want to try for, and that my life is so screwed up and pathetic that even if I did find someone I really cared about who would accept and care about me as much as I them, I wouldn't want them to have anything to do with someone like me. Them just choosing to be with me would make me drive them away, because I cared about them so much that I would want something better for them then to be stuck with me.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
I wish this didn't apply to me as well.
Want to do that "If we are still single by 40 we will try the gay thing and see if that works out?" If you turn me down then I guess that will be my first turn down for the OPs question.
a couple of years ago. i just kind of blerped it out. it was a girl that i was in class with all the time. she "friend zoned me" but never talked after that.
I was shot down before the gun was even pulled until I met my wife. I payed though. I was in the Navy during the 80's and visited many different countries that allowed prostitution. I was young, but I learned. That was a good lesson on life.
I inadvertently shot down a girl today at work, we were talking about drinks which she finished up by saying well maybe you could get me a drink sometime. Out of habit on the topic i said " Well i don't drink", her demeanor changed but i preceded to continue talking about alcohol. Only after did i realize what a douche i had been : (. To be fair she was hitting on me while already having a boyfriend.
About 6 - 7 years ago I used to get shot down all the time when I was in elementary and high school. The thing was I never really had a normal social life until college, which in turned made me more aware of how women act, and thus in turn made me be more like myself around them. I just have a don't care attitude when I talk to women now. And I haven't been shot down since.
Also on a side note, if a couple of guys can get numbers from hot women using wrestling quotes as pick up lines, anything is possible.
Too much of a coward to ever put myself in that position, so never. Had been talking to/working on this girl that was a mutual friend for quite some time. Last a friday a couple of weeks ago I had my birthday party at my place, and we continued talking a lot. I realized she did really like me, and that I wasn't imagining it. So at the afterparty it was me, her and a friend.
My friend went to the bathroom, and I looked her in the eye and went for it - bam, we started making out and had sex all night after my friend realized it was time to leave. Since then we've been seeing eachother a lot, having sex a lot and quite like eachother, even if she for some reason is deathly afraid of a relationship.
Point: if you see your shot, don't lean in, kiss her/him goddamnit. I can't help you with being shot down.
Too much of a coward to ever put myself in that position, so never. Had been talking to/working on this girl that was a mutual friend for quite some time. Last a friday a couple of weeks ago I had my birthday party at my place, and we continued talking a lot. I realized she did really like me, and that I wasn't imagining it. So at the afterparty it was me, her and a friend.
My friend went to the bathroom, and I looked her in the eye and went for it - bam, we started making out and had sex all night after my friend realized it was time to leave. Since then we've been seeing eachother a lot, having sex a lot and quite like eachother, even if she for some reason is deathly afraid of a relationship.
Point: if you see your shot, don't lean in, kiss her/him goddamnit. I can't help you with being shot down.
yea I agree, what's the worst that could happen. " oh no your gross!" that's about it.
I'm extremely lucky to have my girlfriend. She probably should have shot me down. On our first date I talked about lichen and the first time she came back to my room I showed her my pet Myxomycota.
It's easy to deal with getting shot down, that's just a relationship that won't happen, move on and try again. It's a lot tougher when you get shot down in a relationship and get yo ass dumped.
Never. I know I don't stand a chance of ever getting a girl without using some kind of drug or heavy object to knock her out with, so I just don't try.
Is that a personal choice or is it a confidence thing, if you don't mind me asking.
Honestly a big mix of both. I have had self esteem issues my entire life, but the main reason I never try can be summed up in two main reasons. I have never meet some one I cared about or liked enough to want to try for, and that my life is so screwed up and pathetic that even if I did find someone I really cared about who would accept and care about me as much as I them, I wouldn't want them to have anything to do with someone like me. Them just choosing to be with me would make me drive them away, because I cared about them so much that I would want something better for them then to be stuck with me.
You don't have to date a girl to take her out to dinner. I take plenty of women out to eat I have no interest in dating, it's just nice sometimes to have the company of the other sex. They really do have a different take on things, it's nice to get that perspective once in a while.
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