So the situation is as follows. I, a simple first year university student, have grown partial over the past few years to the practice of sleeping sans clothing. It's a liberating experience. However, upon arrival to my dorm room at the beginning of the semester, I happened to notice that the space between mine and my roommate's beds encompasses roughly 5 feet. Now, even though I've lived with the guy for a month, I still hardly know him, and he's British, and we all know how prudish they are. The fella wears more clothes to bed than I do to class, so it's clear that he has some qualms with the exposure of male genitalia. So what's my play?
" Sometime during the night just stand naked hovering over his bed until he wakes up. This should determine if he has a problem with it. "this should do it....
but seriously start wearing at least a string or a pare of boxers, but whatever you do make sure he never finds out or it could end up on the net. uho
I'd say wear some underwear, you'd throw a wrench in your relationship if he somehow see's your gear, or if you walk up to him and start talking to him about being naked. BTW not all English people are prudes, I've met some English dudes who were the furthest things from prudes. But if your roommate is uncomfortable with nudity don't start being the nude guy.
" @mrcool11 said:
" I still hardly know him, and he's British, and we all know how prudish they are."I don't approve of your fucking unfounded generalisations. "
I don't approve of your inability to see a joke when it's right in front of your face
Despite your light hearted take on the subject I will give it a serious response.
Just come out and tell them that you prefer to sleep naked, and ask them if they are ok with you doing so. As long as you don't spend every second of the day naked walking about the room it should be fine. As always though it depends on the individual, and not every one is comfortable with seeing naked people around. If they say no and it becomes a problem try putting a notice on the bulletin board asking if you could switch rooms with someone who wouldn't mind you being naked.
I understand your plight though. I have have slept naked since I was a baby, but a few years ago I had to start wearing underwear to bed because I sleep with my door slightly open and there are kids living in the house now. Since my room is a very tight space with next to no ventilation, and a big ass computer that is on 24/7, it tends to get rather hot in here so I usually don't sleep with any blankets over me. Combine the two and I now have to start wearing underwear to bed. On really hot nights though I say fuck it and go naked.
I don't know how people can sleep with clothes on. Every time I have tried it with pants they would always roll up and start cutting into my legs as I rolled around in my bed during the night, or if I wear underwear they always bunch up and crush one or both of my testicles against my leg and it hurts like hell.
" @crusader8463: I assume you live in a hot country right? Because I can't imagine sleeping without clothes on. Its freezing at night even with really thick blankets. Also don't have enough money to run the heating during the night as well as the day so its cheaper to just wear more clothes. Today I'll wear 3 layers to bed - vest, t-shirt and then Jumper lol. "I live in Canada, and yes it is rather hot most nights despite the stupid stereotypes. As I said though, the main reason it's so hot is that my bedroom is a very small room with zero ventilation and with a big ass computer on 24/7 it gets hot fast.
" @rjayb89 said:What the hell, I did not get a message for your reply. But yes to whatever you said." You should be scared if the dude touches you, man. Unless you're into that sort of thing. "Because being clothed would stop him, should the roommate wish to do so? "
" @Jasta said:Thats happened to me before, some of them from weeks ago =|" @rjayb89 said:What the hell, I did not get a message for your reply. But yes to whatever you said. "" You should be scared if the dude touches you, man. Unless you're into that sort of thing. "Because being clothed would stop him, should the roommate wish to do so? "
Hooray for skewed data from a bullshit choice (even if I too selected the cock slap option).
Really though, unless your roomate has a serious problem, just sleep naked. People usually don't care. A real man understands when another man wants to hang free while he sleeps.