So I'm gay and the person I can see growing old with is a lesbian

"My one friend liked dudes and he was gay"

Reconsider your sexual orientation and then go get her .

I'ma stay out of it cause i don't agree with either sexual preference but beyond that who cares what others think? do whats in your heart.

I've got the best solution to this dilemma... switch genitalia.

"I've got the best solution to this dilemma... switch genitalia."

"So it seems like the trend in this thread is that I should give it a shot and if it doesn't work out (which seems likely, unfortunately) we can stay friends. I'll try it and then maybe report back to you if I can get the cajones up before this thread gets deleted."

"My one friend liked dudes and he was gay. 

I say give it a try, but only if your sure you can deal with the consequences. There are supposedly many Gay men who find themselves in a similar situation, some content, some others not so, rather than asking we who are predominantly heterosexual, surely you should be listening to what Gay men think primarily.

 I'm sure there are sites out there on that will be able to provide an array of advice which is far better than what we can provide. Hvae the sense to use them, rather tahn a videogame site, for something so serious.

"Gamers have all the answers, you've come to the right place. According to Saints Row 2, it's not that hard to get plastic surgery. SO! You need to rotate, she can be a male for a few weeks, then you can be a female for a few weeks. Go back and forth. Throw in a hot dog suit for good measure. OK! You're welcome."

I love how people are saying "HEY, JUST DON'T BE A GAY! Problem solved!". Seriously, half the time I think 9/10 people on these forums have some sort of serious mental illness.

"I love how people are saying "HEY, JUST DON'T BE A GAY! Problem solved!". Seriously, half the time I think 9/10 people on these forums have some sort of serious mental illness."

"I love how people are saying "HEY, JUST DON'T BE A GAY! Problem solved!". Seriously, half the time I think 9/10 people on these forums have some sort of serious mental illness."

The recurring theme whenever there is someone asking for relationship advice on a gaming forum is  a person who doesn't have the balls to say anything. So talk to her about it.

I am with you on that Milkman.

I think you should write a romantic comedy about it and make millions

cause yeah, that situation seriously sucks, but if your not attracted to her and she isn't you then there really isn't anything you can do.
There isn't anything that says you can't just grow old together and enjoy each others company and not be in a romantic relation ship. Great friends are hard to come by.

but seriously. Make that movie.

Okay, I'm not clicking on that Fish.

"stupid porn

Go out I say. If yuo are a good match then do it.

You're frigid, not bisexual.

Part of me feels like its a joke thread and I want to make a Will and Grace joke about your situation; but that show wasn't on for so long unless some of it was true and viewers were paying attention to it. Overall, Id say you may have found your best friend for life and be soulmates in that sense. Not every intense relationship has to be sexual you know.

Oh, it's gone :)

I always thought something like this could happen.

"I always thought something like this could happen.

It'd make a horrible movie.

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"Hausdog said:

"So it seems like the trend in this thread is that I should give it a shot and if it doesn't work out (which seems likely, unfortunately) we can stay friends. I'll try it and then maybe report back to you if I can get the cajones up before this thread gets deleted."

I'm not the only one who thinks this is a bad idea, right? Don't fuck up a good thing for societal expectations. Also, BoG is wrong if he's trying to suggest that sex isn't important at all. "

"Milkman said:

"I love how people are saying "HEY, JUST DON'T BE A GAY! Problem solved!". Seriously, half the time I think 9/10 people on these forums have some sort of serious mental illness."

I'm sure most of them are kids. Which, yeah, is kind of a mental illness when you think about it. "

Wow, OK I really need to comment on this.  I am a gay male as well, and im going to tell you how it is.  If you and her are really gay than it won't work out.  Maybe you can pretend to hide your feelings for people of the same sex for a period of time in order to make this relationship work, but in the end you both will end up unhappy because you cant be who you really are and who you really want to be with.  Plus I've been seeing a lot of comments on how great it would be if you two hooked up and ended up being straight?!  What the hell is that suppose to mean!?  Let me tell you something straight people if you are gay than you cannot go straight, you can deny your gayness but you will never ever truly be straight.  Just like if your white you can never be black, it's biological end of story.  Anyway, friend it's sounds like you two have a special and strong relationship which can be hard to find in this crazy world of ours.  I say support each other, come out to your friends and families and live a happy, wonderful and gay filled life!!

So do you like her or do you like her?

"Advice from a pessimist with little relationship experience: While I don't think sex is everything, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where the other person isn't at least a bit attracted to me. I mean what's the point? Because it's convenient? And I don't buy that wanting to be with your soulmate bs, you can just be roommates/friends and accept that both are looking for different things, because you are, anything else would just be lying to yourselves."

Well it may be weird but if you both have feelings for each other, try be straight? : P


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An hero?

Do whatever you want to do, whatever your heart is telling to to feel. If it works out and thats what you want then good, if it doesnt and your gay, who cares. If your family has a problem then F them. I don't know what it's like to be in your shoes, neither does some people families because they don't have that problem.

Besides if your gay, thats great, leaves more women for the rest of us gents *thumbs*

Listen to Pink Triangle together

You should give it a try. Don't gay people say they love the person for who they are and not based on gender? What's stopping you from this relationship? It can't be gender.

If you're a girly man, and she's a manly girl, then it should work out right? Right?