Sorry, another dating advice thread

So the past couple of weeks I was seeing this girl whom I really like. I thought the dates went well, mostly dinner, movies, hanging out, etc. The other day she tells me she doesn't see herself being in a romantic relationship with me. Seemed a little too soon to make that conclusion, we'd only had 3 or 4 dates under us. Should I try to convince her otherwise? Is there a way to do that? If the dates had been crumby I would understand and not be as unwilling to accept my fate, but I had a great time and thought she did, too. Should I try to find out why she feels that way?  I think I took it pretty well when she told me, but now it is sorta eating away at me. Anyways, sorry for another "help me with girls!" thread, but I appreciate any insights you guys and gals may have.

3 to 4 dates seems like enough to me. Go ahead and ask why she feels like that but don't push it and it sounds like it's done and you should move on. The last thing you should do is to spam her with questions as to what's wrong and stuff. Just start looking at other prospects.......that's what I would do at least.

Sounds like the chemistry isn't there. Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't. I'd pack up and move on. Unless you're really set on her. In which case, persist.

You can't force a girl to like you.

Let it go

" You can't force a girl to like you. "

Yes, let it go. Move on and accept it.

Urkle it. Don't take "No!" for an answer for 9 seasons, and in the mean time, secretly invent a device that makes you into a supreme version of yourself. I think Dr. Phil did an episode on how to handle this matter, and came to the same conclusion. 

Fake your own death.

It's time to move on. Once one of you says its over, it's over.  You can't change someones mind about that.

She dont like you. Leave it.

Let's make this game related:

I think it would be okay for you to ask why she's not into you ("did I do something to upset you? Just a chemistry thing?"), but she's made her decision and trying to change her mind would just reflect badly on you. There are more ladies out there! Sometimes people don't mutually or romantically click with each other, it's not  big deal.

"she doesn't think the chemistry isn't there."

Why WOULDN'T she want to be with a dude who dresses like a ninja?

You can't force her to go out with you. Just get over it and move on.

I feel as though this is somewhat appropriate. 
  

Don't listen to anything that anyone on this website says

I appreciate all the replys. I think the thing that threw me off the most is that she was so active in talking to me and finding time to hangout. I initiated the first date, but two days later she invited me over for dinner. Normally I would be able to tell right away if she wasn't into me. I suppose it might just be her friendly nature. I do want to ask why she didn't want to pursue anything just for my own edification, but I don't want to be confrontational about it.
 
As for 3-4 dates being enough time to know, I guess that is true, but I think I'm kind of a hard guy to get to know. My relationships in the past have been a result of getting to know each other for a while and then dating. I don't have this luxury with her. Anyways, thanks again.

" Don't listen to anything that anyone on this website says "

Touch her shoulder.

Take her to Paris.

Being single is awesome.

You could ask why she feels that way I guess....but ultimately, you're gonna wanna move on. When a girl says that is usually means she's not interested. Persistence sometimes SOMETIMES SOOOOOMETIMES (rarely) can change things but 99.9999999% of the time...don't bother.
If she sees you're cool and you move on and start hangin with other girls an stuff she may start to become interested again. Cause girls are crazy like that.

Not really much you can do. 4 dates is plenty for anyone to realize they don't like someone. Hell, I usually know whether or not I want to pursue a woman after the first date, and women are probably the same way. You could go ahead and ask her what exactly she didn't like about you though, for future reference, but it's most likely nothing in particular. Unless you're a socially awkward clingy creeper that is. 

  Let Mac Lethal solve all your problems.

" @DeeGee said:

" You can't force a girl to like you. "

...uh yeah you can.  Trust me, I've done it before.  Hire some people to stalk her, and then "save" her.  It works. "

Not trying to get too personal, but did you sleep together on the last date?

It sounds like she was into you and then something changed, sexual chemistry can be one of the main reasons for a good thing to cool off, especially if you didn't do something dramatically dickish.

im just wondering if theres a specific thread for this cause i think i need some advice to be honest.  call me what u will for asking advice on a gaming forum but my best friend's in Australia and the only friends that i trust are pretty close to the girl and friends that im pretty close to dont take me too seriously so yeahhhh...

Stalk her for three months. Then climb through her window while she's sleeping and cook her breakfast in bed before work. 
 
Be sure to bring flowers or it will not work! Good luck!

If you care, ask her why she feels that way but don't smother her.

Usually I kill myself. This means you should forget she ever lived and move on because she's a cheese face.  
 
Also you prob did something wrong to mess up chemistry of some kind. 

@Wright said:

"Let Mac Lethal solve all your problems."

" 3 to 4 dates seems like enough to me. Go ahead and ask why she feels like that but don't push it and it sounds like it's done and you should move on. The last thing you should do is to spam her with questions as to what's wrong and stuff. Just start looking at other prospects.......that's what I would do at least. "

You already had a chance to convince her and you wasted it. Time to move on.

Even if she doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with you it doesn't  mean that she dont wanna be in a sexuall relationship

 Sometimes some people just have an idea of what their lives should be and if you've said you see your life as A she might have figured that it's not fit with her plans for B. My ex girlfriend dumped me for that very reason, and we were together for a few months. But one night she called me and explained that she just didn't see it working out because we were heading in different directions and even though feelings were there, she didn't want to compromise her future because of me and how my life looked like at the time, and in retrospect I quite respect her decision to stay true to herself. 
 
And sometimes, it just doesn't click past 'friendship'.