Practicing Roman Catholic. Raised by my parents that were nominally Protestant till I was about 5 when my mom became Catholic, and about 8 when my Dad became Catholic, and for the next decade or so I was raised in the most Catholic-ass-Catholic household you could imagine. We went on many ups and downs, from pretty darn traditional when my parents were filled with fervor, to more laid-back when they got older and wiser.
Myself, most of my life it seemed like the most awesome thing in the world would be to be a priest. Not only did I help at Mass and get awestruck by the thought of a priest bringing God down to an altar, but also as I got older I learned about how while there are many horrible priests who have done the worst, most unspeakable shit; however, I also saw first hand that for every one of those terrible human beings there are scores of other priests who work tirelessly to help people. Day in day out, they're out there, from the early morning to pretty late at night, visiting the sick, helping in the parish, teaching in the schools.
I went to college seminary for 4 years (about halfway through; usually you go there for a total of 6-9 years), then decided that maybe priesthood was either not my calling, or it wasn't the right time. I ended up working at a job that has little to do with my philosophy degree, but I've been exposed to a variety of viewpoints on life and morals and existence that I hadn't been aware of before.
One of the things that came to me while thinking about philosophy was to not take anything for granted. A lot of religious people act on blind faith, and other non-religious people accept what they see only. From modern philosophy I learned to doubt everything, even God, but from ancient and medieval philosophy I learned to not just assume that there isn't an objective truth. I also learned to not just believe that it's impossible to learn this truth. Particularly over the past year I've doubted my own faith a lot; I'm not that great of a person, I've never been especially pious or prayerful (might surprise people considering I'd wanted to be a priest before), and Catholicism has had a lot of marks against it in our 2,000 year history.
At one point I even started considering myself an agnostic, but of a different kind than most. "Agnostic" means "not-knowledge." Agnostics hold you really can't prove one way or the other whether or not there is a God, or at least some kind of Supreme Being, Higher Power, or First Maker. They assume a neutral stance on it, but then go on the assumption that since they don't know one way or the other, better to assume there isn't one. My thought (actually not my original thought, but what I went off of), is that there are a lot of goods that come out of religious belief, as well as evils, but overall a helpful worldview, at least as far as I was able to tell, so might as well go on the assumption that there is a God of some sort. And if you happen to be right, the payoff would be great, after death!
However more lately I think I've seen the presence of God in my life more clearly and it has reaffirmed my mostly lost faith; both that in a pretty chaotic cosmos there appears to be some kind of providence providing order. Or if nothing else, I think it's impossible to disprove the existence of a God, for it could be something that set everything in order and let it go, but makes total sense if you think about it from that perspective.
TL;DR in the end I think that a lot of people gravely misunderstand the Catholic Church, or think it unreasonable. But from my personal experience at least, there are very logical, reasonable reasons for all of its teachings, and there have been countless members who have been motivated by their faith (like Mother Theresa), to go do incredible things and make a difference. What does it mean for me? Love everyone unconditionally. Especially those who hate me, or are intolerant of me.
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