I'm not who you think I am.
I started out reading this thread disappointed in the direction, but what I came here for was given to me in droves the further into it I went.
I'm not sure personality flaws are a secret, that's like saying no one in your life has any perception.
I'm sure some of you hiding in shame, are in reality around people that know your secrets and are either just waiting for you to tell them or are just letting you be.
I'm highly indecisive, so I'm not really sure sometimes what truly defines me. Maybe getting easily bored is what defines me.
I don't so much have secrets, I have a series of thoughts that enter my brain that may or may not be reality.
The only thing I've done in life that I'd describe as something I live in shame about, is a couple incidents as a kid. But I was young and stupid, so really, it's not a big deal. One, was that I experimented with homosexuality with a couple of friends, no sex or touching of any kind though, just some pants dropping. Another one I dressed up as a girl, for some odd reason. Again, not a big deal, just the product of a confused childhood. Though I guess, as I've said, I'm still pretty confused.
I like myself and my life though. Mainly only hang around with my girlfriend, and I'm perfectly fine with that.
Certainly took you long enough to respond! :P (The hug offer is still valid though.)
My secre is that I have a lot of anxieties. I worry my art and writing isn't good enough, that I'm too annoying/awkward to have friends, a significant other, or a job, and that my parents will reject me if I come out as bi.
There's plenty of other bi people (myself included) here man! You're in good company. I recently just came out myself, and obviously my situation isn't the same as yours, but I'm definitely glad I did.