I never understood the "guys, you mustn't ever tell" cultural bullshit.
It's more about facing your problem head on than about never telling. Talk to the source like an adult rather than tattling to someone that could severely and negatively impact someone elses life.
Except this notion is not aimed towards having adults resolve their issues between each other. It is fostered at a very young age as a means to coerce victims from reporting bullies in school yards, because any one that does is a coward. It's bred in people who are in fact not adults, and can't be expected to resolve issues like adults on their own.
Won't somebody think of the children! It's taught to children so that they know how to handle their own shit when it continues for the rest of our lives. It's good that kids get knocked around a little bit because so do adults! Not too much. Obviously we don't want kids to get hurt but it's part of life and you're going to make it a lot further if you can deal with bullshit on your own.
So you think hatking should go to the landlord or the cops? That sounds selfish to me. It's a smell. Talk to the person smoking because it isn't a huge thing. Tell them to stop being dumb (in so many words) and do something to cover the smell because they're going to get themselves in trouble by someone less lenient. If you can smell it in your room I guarantee you can smell it more at their door. If they're assholes and tell you to shove off then yeah, go talk to someone.
You don't seem to get that getting caught with drugs is a very serious offense. Don't fuck someone over for life just because of a smell. You'll feel better for handling it on your own and they'll be better off because they'll learn that they need to be better at keeping their shit on the down low.
PS: don't smoke weed. It makes you aloof and lazy.
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