This is a very simplistic thought that I'd like to share with you giant bombers and get your opinions on it.
Rape is a horrible phenomenon and it is destructive to a woman's morale and spirit and psyche, and sometimes body. It's a terrible thing and I do not condone rapists in any way shape or form, forcing another person into being sexed by you without their consent is a traumatic crime.
However I'm trying to understand this one point: Are women expecting men (most men, or even a large portion of them) to learn to endure and cope with their playful maddening ways and their no-means-yes methods and so forth, and somehow stop being horny testosterone-fueled dogs in the near future? It's disgusting and outrageous that men are like that and they go on and rape, they suck, they're trash if they commit such a crime, I AGREE, but that is irrelevant because it's not a simple hair-do that they can fix, it's a part of a lifestyle that millions of women condone and participate in! And even if you expect them to fix it, they just WON'T, it's not a political movement, it's fucking aeon-old nature.
I mean, it's not an excuse, it's a known scientifically-backed fact that men's dicks jump up in arousal much quicker and more often than a woman's body does, and it's been known for centuries that being sexually inactive and having that arousal clouds your mind and controls you like an evil spell that takes control of your actions and limbs. It makes you shiver.
So I'm just wondering, do (again, most) women expect men to no longer be maddened and freakishly confused/aroused by their teasing, playing hard to get, dancing a really filthy sexual dance then telling the guy off, etc.. in the near future? Are they really expecting this physical biological spell to stop?
I'll give you a simple analogy: You guys love Jeff and Ryan to death, so if I post shit about them, there will be a backlash, and no matter how long I keep doing it and how much I criticize and protest your backlash, hoping to end it, you will ALWAYS have a backlash. It's just how it is. And it's my fault for smack talking them, you didn't come to me and insult me, I triggered the chain reaction willfully.
Watch this video to get my point:
So Rihanna literally dances the dick off the big dangerous looking guy, then she expects him to not only shut down his dick that she stimulated, but she also expects his somewhat programmed mind (by society) to UNDERSTAND her sudden departure and to be OK with it. Me for example, and probably some of you, we're internet geeks and if this happened to us we'd go home to a bottle of wine or whatever because we're not a part of that 'cool club' dudebro shindig and we take such a letdown, swallow it and masturbate later on. But that guy is integrated in the sucking and puffing and fucking crowd, it's a norm for him, which makes it even more severe for him to just back off, because it's not a part of the "code" which SHE HERSELF lives by and condones (by being in a dangerous club dancing against a big guy's dick). The cool free sex flapping boobs code.
Disclaimer: I'm well aware that millions of rape cases have innocent victims who did not play with bad boys and flap their boobs against their faces in night clubs, however I'm talking about the over-arching issue of the teasing playfulness of women and how it directly and indirectly affects the mentality of men.
So the women WHO ARE PLAYFUL, NOT ALL WOMEN either keep playing those games expecting a miraculous change in the negative mind-fucking effect their games have on men, or they just choose to keep arousing them, then get attacked by them, then blame them for attacking them. The former is stupid, the latter is THEIR RIGHT to exercise but it's fucked up.