" It's a bit of both. They are competing for our attention and to do that they have to out-do each other. So if they think we're giving more attention to the one that is dressed more provocatively they will probably start showing a bit more skin, or doing whatever they think is winning the attention. I've had a girl tell me that it comes down to one thing which you did say though.. " Women hate other women". Whether they admit it themselves or not, competition is part of human nature. But what do I know, I'm not a Chemist. "
But why do women think all men automatically prefer more skin? I prefer an evening gown over a mini skirt, for instance. Talk about an automatic stereotype. "He's a guy, if I show more cleavage he'll pay more attention to me." Not this guy, lady. "
Have you told her not to believe the stereotype that all men like seeing a woman in revealing clothing? Your friend Jen could have talked to this Tina girl and asked for some fashion tips on how to get the attention of a man. Just because she started to dress a bit like her does not mean she is trying to compete with her.
@Fajita_Jim: It sounds like you need to start working towards a 3-way.
@fullmetal5550: Why should he lie though? We all DO like to see women in revealing clothing (I mean assuming we find the women in question attractive).
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