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#1 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

It doesn't have to be the internet just life In general. I'm just wondering if you ever came across someone that didn't like you. Even though you never done anything to make them hate you.

#2 Posted by Morrow (1829 posts) -

Most people aren't aware when they do something that upsets other people.

And: haters gonna hate.

#3 Posted by believer258 (12085 posts) -

I thought you meant someone that I hated for no reason. I don't hate anyone for no reason; however, people have disliked me for reasons that I never could figure out. It never bothered me much.

#4 Posted by living4theday258 (680 posts) -

someone dislikes me they can kiss my ass...

#5 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@believer258 said:

I thought you meant someone that I hated for no reason. I don't hate anyone for no reason; however, people have disliked me for reasons that I never could figure out. It never bothered me much.

Or it could be that some people are jealous..

#6 Edited by CaLe (4039 posts) -

I've had people want to fight me because I didn't go to the same school as them. I dunno if they hated me though, I was too busy doing roundhouse kicks and flying elbow drops to ask.

#7 Posted by Bell_End (1208 posts) -

no. why would someone hate me for no reason.

#8 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@CaLe said:

I've had people want to fight me because I didn't go to the same school as them. I dunno if they hated me though, I was too busy doing round-house kicks and flying elbow drops to ask.

Samething happen to me a few times when I was waiting for the bus. I had people walk up to me ready to fight because I went to a different school.

#9 Posted by Morrow (1829 posts) -

@falserelic said:

@CaLe said:

I've had people want to fight me because I didn't go to the same school as them. I dunno if they hated me though, I was too busy doing round-house kicks and flying elbow drops to ask.

Samething happen to me a few times when I was waiting for the bus. I had people walk up to me ready to fight because I went to a different school.

Idiots? Unjustified violence is stupid.

#10 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@Morrow said:

@falserelic said:

@CaLe said:

I've had people want to fight me because I didn't go to the same school as them. I dunno if they hated me though, I was too busy doing round-house kicks and flying elbow drops to ask.

Samething happen to me a few times when I was waiting for the bus. I had people walk up to me ready to fight because I went to a different school.

Idiots? Unjustified violence is stupid.

Alot of those people grew up to violence. To them they think its fun.

#11 Posted by SlasherMan (1725 posts) -

Sure, I've had my fair share of haters... probably even still do. I don't think it's deserved or justified personally, but what are you gonna do? You can't please everyone.

The worst part is when you let them get to you, which even I am guilty of sometimes. I should work on that.

#12 Posted by Morrow (1829 posts) -

@SlasherMan said:

The worst part is when you let them get to you, which even I am guilty of sometimes. I should work on that.

I think it's normal that it gets to you. If it wouldn't, you'd have no emotion.

#13 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@SlasherMan said:

Sure, I've had my fair share of haters... probably even still do. I don't think it's deserved or justified personally, but what are you gonna do? You can't please everyone.

The worst part is when you let them get to you, which even I am guilty of sometimes. I should work on that.

I usually don't let people get to me I can take verbal insults. The more you let it get to you and it shows. Then people are just going to keep doing it.

#14 Posted by ckeats (489 posts) -

There's this guy who keeps trying to make me look bad at work for no reason I can think of. An Example: I work IT for a civil construction company and had just installed a new printer in the safety trailer on one of our sites. Anyways, this was a new, cheaper printer than out usual Ricoh's we get and it used a different format of address book import, and the safety office was only going to email one of two people and it saves them after you use it once anyways, so I left it be and everyone there was cool with it. So this guy who works in there goes and calls my office extension on a Monday and leaves a voice mail about wanting to get the address book imported into it.

Here's the thing. I have two extensions, one for the main office and one on site. I spend most of the week on site and only one or two days in the office, and everyone in the company knows this and it's made clear on the company extension list that's ON HIS GODDAMN WALL. This guy has seen me, walked through my site office and never once said two words to me on site all week. So Friday rolls around and I get CC'd on a big email to my boss, and the site manager from him bitching about me not doing it for him, and that I never even responded. I literally just sat at my desk for the first time all week and got his message. This wasn't the first time he's gone around and done something like this in a round about way just to make it look like I'm not doing my job.

So I called him out on it. Put the address book in his printer and then explained this to my boss and the HR manager who simply said "don't worry about it he's an asshole". Never had a problem again.

He ends every email with "Please advise" too.

"Please advise" my foot in your ass.

#15 Posted by GunstarRed (5398 posts) -

Does my older sister count?

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#16 Edited by J12088 (462 posts) -

Guys with curly hair. Like the short curls. Pubic hair. If they let it grow out it becomes like an afro. I fucking hate guys with curly hair. So i guess i do have a reason it's just a really weird, unexplainable one.

edit: Ha totaly misread the title. I thought you was asking if I hated anyone for no reason. To answer the question no Ive never had anyone hate me that i know of.

#17 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@GunstarRed said:

Does my older sister count?

If she hates you then yes she does..

#18 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@J12088 said:

Guys with curly hair. Like the short curls. Pubic hair. If they let it grow out it becomes like an afro. I fucking hate guys with curly hair. So i guess i do have a reason it's just a really weird, unexplainable one.

I guess you hate me because I have curly hair.

#19 Posted by J12088 (462 posts) -

@falserelic said:

@J12088 said:

Guys with curly hair. Like the short curls. Pubic hair. If they let it grow out it becomes like an afro. I fucking hate guys with curly hair. So i guess i do have a reason it's just a really weird, unexplainable one.

I guess you hate me because I have curly hair.

It's different on the internet. I can'tsee it. If i saw you I'd probaby have an urge to smack you in the nose. Not that I've ever acted on it I'm not that sort of person.

#20 Posted by billyhoush (1192 posts) -

It's another way people project their insecurities. When someone is a random asshole I just try to steer clear. When it's a friend that is being a dick I usually ask them why they are in a shit mood and the truth pours out.

#21 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@J12088 said:

@falserelic said:

@J12088 said:

Guys with curly hair. Like the short curls. Pubic hair. If they let it grow out it becomes like an afro. I fucking hate guys with curly hair. So i guess i do have a reason it's just a really weird, unexplainable one.

I guess you hate me because I have curly hair.

It's different on the internet. I can'tsee it. If i saw you I'd probaby have an urge to smack you in the nose. Not that I've ever acted on it I'm not that sort of person.

It wouldn't be that easy for someone to smack me. There always will be a price to pay in blood.

#22 Posted by SlasherMan (1725 posts) -

@falserelic said:

@SlasherMan said:

Sure, I've had my fair share of haters... probably even still do. I don't think it's deserved or justified personally, but what are you gonna do? You can't please everyone.

The worst part is when you let them get to you, which even I am guilty of sometimes. I should work on that.

I usually don't let people get to me I can take verbal insults. The more you let it get to you and it shows. Then people are just going to keep doing it.

Oh, don't worry. I can take insults as well as I can dish them back out. I keep a tough exterior, and most people would not be able to tell what does or doesn't get to me. Doesn't change the fact that some things just get to you, one way or another, and they're always ehcoing in the back of your head. I think that thisis the larger part of my problem more than anything.

#23 Posted by Stete (748 posts) -

Yes, it was called high school.

#24 Posted by pw2566ch (480 posts) -

It happens all of the time with me. In some cases it's certain things I do say that I do catch myself on and apologize for, but apparently people are just unforgiving. In most cases people just become completely judgmental when they see me. I'll use my new job for example. There's this one chic at my job that always yes at me and calls me retarded for no reason. This doesn't bother me, of course, because words aren't going to kill me. What I do find weird is that no one seems to notice. I mean, she doesn't do this to anyone else. So you would think someone would notice this. Oh well, I just move on with my day.

There's also this one chic that continues to call me a fag and other shit because I play a lot of PC games. Ladies and Gentlemen, this chic is 20 years-old and plays a lot of Call of Duty on Xbox Live.

#25 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

Katt Williams says it best about haters.

#26 Posted by JasonR86 (9762 posts) -

Probably. I used to have kids at school say I acted 'too cool'. I had no idea what they meant. I used to tell them they were self-conscious. That probably didn't help.

#27 Posted by mscupcakes (612 posts) -

@Bell_End said:

no. why would someone hate me for no reason.

For asking too many questions!

#28 Posted by Canteu (2821 posts) -

Probably, but usually if somebody "hates" me, I give them a damn good reason.

#29 Posted by pyromagnestir (4333 posts) -

Hate? Not that I'm aware of. Dislike? Sure. I've had people who I've given no active reason to dislike me, but seem to treat me in a way that indicates they dislike me. Some people take there self insecurities and reflect them outwardly onto others who have similar flaws, or don't have those flaws, or are different then they think a person should be... etc. At least that's what I always figured was happening beneath the surface. They have there reasons, but those reasons have nothing to do with me.

#30 Edited by ProfessorK (825 posts) -

I had a lady that works on my job that was really cold and short with me( very dismissive, one word answers, snarky) for no reason. Don't know why, but she stopped after a few months of me working there, I guess she just needed to get used to me. Now we are pretty close, but man it was so jarring at first. I was like: "dam wtf did I do to this bitch, she acts like I mugged her mother or something!"

I think it had to do with things not going her way in life and her just being bitter, who knows.

#31 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

My brother has people that don't like him on his job. All because he's quiet and keeps to himself.

#32 Posted by Sackmanjones (4782 posts) -

Do you have a bowl of questions that you pull from to make these threads?

In any case, yes I have had many people hate me for no reason

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#33 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@Sackmanjones said:

Do you have a bowl of questions that you pull from to make these threads?

Yes I have plenty of them in my head. I'm already thinking of my next topic as we speak. I am a weird individual indeed I just hate my false ways. Honestly I just have fun making weird random threads and hearing people thoughts.

#34 Posted by Village_Guy (2657 posts) -

A couple of people on the Internet have showed behavior against me that, I suppose, could be called "hate".

All of them because I openly state that I like a cartoon...

#35 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@Village_Guy said:

A couple of people on the Internet have showed behavior against me that, I suppose, could be called "hate".

All of them because I openly state that I like a cartoon...

Whats the name of the cartoon?

#36 Posted by FluxWaveZ (19376 posts) -

@Stete said:

Yes, it was called high school.

Yep. Thankfully, now everyone just ignores me for no reason.

#37 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

I had more people afraid of me in high school then hate me. I was always quiet and never really talked to anyone much. I usually have my hoody on and distance myself from people. Some people thought I was a thug because of the way I looked.

#38 Posted by TheDudeOfGaming (6078 posts) -

Some Albanians and Croatians, but hey, whatevs right?

#39 Posted by Turambar (6846 posts) -

There's no such thing as hatred without a reason.  It's only how rational/sensible you feel that reason to be.

#40 Posted by Village_Guy (2657 posts) -

@falserelic said:

@Village_Guy said:

A couple of people on the Internet have showed behavior against me that, I suppose, could be called "hate".

All of them because I openly state that I like a cartoon...

Whats the name of the cartoon?

My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic (the subtitle is key here!) - we are talking about the 2010 reboot NOT the original 80's cartoon, that cartoon sucks.

#41 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@Turambar said:

There's no such thing as hatred without a reason. It's only how rational/sensible you feel that reason to be.

Well did anyone have a reason to hate you?

#42 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@Village_Guy said:

@falserelic said:

@Village_Guy said:

A couple of people on the Internet have showed behavior against me that, I suppose, could be called "hate".

All of them because I openly state that I like a cartoon...

Whats the name of the cartoon?

My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic (the subtitle is key here!) - we are talking about the 2010 reboot NOT the original 80's cartoon, that cartoon sucks.

I have two friends that love watching that cartoon. They love anime which is fine, but I never understood why they like watching that show. It always creeped me out seeing two grown men with full fledged beards watching that show. But I never judge them in anyway. I always just found it odd.

#43 Edited by mrburger (103 posts) -

Anyone else here see anger as a weakness? Even at my angriest, I know to keep my mouth shut to keep from saying stupid shit I know I'll regret. I can't remember the last time I said something out of fury that I later in my right mind recalled and was like, "Yep, couldn't have said it any better." That never happens. Rage is human, but weak.

EDIT: Let me qualify this statement: I think as a physical motivator, rage is almost incomparably great. Rage turned Goku Super Saiyan! ... But intellectually, socially, emotionally, rage is usually regrettable and dumb. There.

#44 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@mrburger said:

Anyone else here see anger as a weakness? Even at my angriest, I know to keep my mouth shut to keep from saying stupid shit I know I'll regret. I can't remember the last time I said something out of fury that I later in my right mind I recalled and was like, "Yep, couldn't have said it any better." That never happens. Rage is human, but weak.

I usually don't get angry, but I have lost my temper a few times. I said some things to my ex girlfriend I wish I haven't said. Which I still do regret even till today.

#45 Posted by Turambar (6846 posts) -
@falserelic said:

@Turambar said:

There's no such thing as hatred without a reason. It's only how rational/sensible you feel that reason to be.

Well did anyone have a reason to hate you?

Sure.  Being an Asian kid in the middle of the Bronx drew the ire of a few for one, but I'm not just talking about reasons we know.  I'd say everyone has done something, whether they realize it or not, to annoy someone in some fashion.
#46 Posted by ItBeStefYo (1020 posts) -

@falserelic said:

It doesn't have to be the internet just life In general. I'm just wondering if you ever came across someone that didn't like you. Even though you never done anything to make them hate you.

Yeah, mostly racism.

#47 Posted by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@Turambar said:

@falserelic said:

@Turambar said:

There's no such thing as hatred without a reason. It's only how rational/sensible you feel that reason to be.

Well did anyone have a reason to hate you?

Sure. Being an Asian kid in the middle of the Bronx drew the ire of a few for one, but I'm not just talking about reasons we know. I'd say everyone has done something, whether they realize it or not, to annoy someone in some fashion.

That's kinda funny I had people hate me and I never done anything to them. I literally minded my own business and had people walking up to me talking shit.

#48 Edited by falserelic (5480 posts) -

@ItBeStefYo said:

@falserelic said:

It doesn't have to be the internet just life In general. I'm just wondering if you ever came across someone that didn't like you. Even though you never done anything to make them hate you.

Yeah, mostly racism.

I had to deal with racism a few times too in my life.

#49 Posted by RubberBabyBuggyBumpers (726 posts) -

@falserelic: that's been the story of my life ever since i was a little kid.

#50 Posted by TeflonBilly (4713 posts) -

If you believe in love at first sight, then you must believe in hate at first sight,

Nature is balance