Patrick, stop white-knighting and trying to protect those fragile beings from something that isn't even there. They will not have sex with you, no matter how hard you try to defend their honour like that. What a joke, seriously.
Its not the same, and they're both disgusting.
How are they not the same....?
If you're asking that question, you're missing the whole point of all the discussion that's been going on for like a year now.