It's sad this is happening. I hope we can keep seeing games from all sorts of different people. I'm glad we have more women participating and I wish it wasn't so hostile. That said I love stuff like Bayonetta and Dead or Alive so I guess that makes me a villain too.
I love Bayonetta! I mean, I REALLY love Bayonetta - I have figures of her and art books! You can be a pro-sex feminist! Personally, I enjoy games with sexy women. It's when they're objects for men and don't have agency that I get mad.
I know your life is crazy right now, but I hope you have a chance to enjoy the sequel when it comes out.