Rorie, please streamline this to all hell. Don't let Dan pick fights with the party, don't let party members pickpocket each other, and just dole out gold like XP. Fighting over gold in D&D is the most petty and boring thing in the world and it makes for terrible television. If they're going to do something that makes for a tedious argument, just laugh it off as a joke and move on. I feel like everyone at the table and watching at home would have a lot more fun.