"Yet we cannot see strippers tits or vagina's. What pisses me off is, if you're going so far as to have a strip club in your game with lap dances, you might as well go full nudity... Anyways The Lost and the Damned has nudity... Full frontal MALE nudity... Not what I was looking for really. Do they get leeway since it's a downloadable game?"
I think they get a big leeway. I don't think the ESRB looks at DLC content, but we all know Rockstar loves when there games are in the news. They like the controversy, they like to see there game being talked, if its positive or negative it does not matter.
The game is well worth the $50. The single player campagin is about 20 hrs long if you do everything. Multiplayer is great especially if you know 2 other people who play. As for a price drop, dont expect one till maybe this summer.