People who are indicating who is 'winning' are no longer coming from the (relatively) unbiased position of having neither console. Many now own a PS4 (many more than own XBones) and thus are now biased in favor of perceiving themselves as having made the right choice.
For my money, I was on the PS4 bandwagon for a good while, but with the announcement of the Tomb Raider exclusive and the arrival of some Halo information, I'm drifting back toward MS.
This. Watching people that bought a ps4 flip out over Tomb Raider has been interesting, to say the least. Lots of people trying to justify their purchase.