Something went wrong. Try again later

martyarf

This user has not updated recently.

251 0 25 10
Forum Posts Wiki Points Following Followers

martyarf's forum posts

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#1  Edited By martyarf

I would just like to summarize that the defense of calling Skyler (and Ms. Gunn) bitch and cunt is variously:

a) Those words aren't sexist - I would call a man who did those things that too!

b) Those words are gendered, in that they are very commonly used against women - but that doesn't make them sexist!

c) I'm British so that makes it okay because reasons.

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#2  Edited By martyarf

@martyarf said:

@spaceinsomniac said:

@martyarf said:

A huge amount of the reaction that Skylar provokes is fundamentally misogynist: you will hear her called a "bitch", a "cunt", and so on endlessly. Walt - who let us not forget, is a multiple murderer, abuser, who threatens people regularly, is extremely manipulative and at this point seemingly divorced from reality - is held up by many (in countless threads like these) as some kind of badass, a renegade who has to Do Bad Things But Is Ultimately Good. These same people probably think Don Draper - a misogynist, cheating, abusive, lying advertising executive is also some kind of hero.

Complex shows: The Sopranos, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, The Wire, nearly anything you can name, do not have heroes. They all have fundamentally immoral characters that you are tricked into sympathizing with. It is a hallmark of 20th century fiction. If you're going to defend Walt to the end, you should at least be aware of the genre conventions that you're in the process of ignoring.

You can call a woman a "bitch" or a "cunt" and not be "fundamentally misogynist." The word misogynist means that you hate women, not that you hate a woman. Do you automatically assume that a woman is engaging in misandry when she uses the words "dick" or a "prick" to refer to a man?

At the same time, Anna Gunn may have a point, but I think it has more to do with someone working against the protagonist, rather than a hatred of women.

The terms "bitch" and "cunt" are gendered - they are used disproportionately against women.

The "dick" and "prick" derail is interesting - why is Skylar never called these words? Because they are gendered. I have seen it commonly expressed that "dick" and "prick", in particular, are masculine insults.

When did I ever suggest that these words are not gendered? Of course they are gendered.

My point is that I can use the word "cunt" to refer to a specific woman, and not have it refer to the entire population of women. A woman can call her ex-boyfriend "a total prick" and I'm not going to assume that she must hate all men.

And yes, racism and sexism ARE two sides of the same coin. If you beat the crap out of someone because they're white and they're in your predominately black neighborhood, you're just as much of a piece of shit as the white-trash asshole who burns a cross in a black person's yard. If you hate someone because of their race or gender, you're a bigot. It's as simple as that.

My point is that I can use the word "N" to refer to a specific black person, and not have it refer to the entire population of black people.

Hmm, doesn't really work does it. But yet, here you are...

This isn't two sides of a coin, because just like with race, historically one side of the coin lands 90% of the time. It is a loaded coin.

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#3  Edited By martyarf
@jarmahead said:

@digiwth said:

This may just be in my experience but a lot of the Skylar hate I see on the internets is something like: "WOW SKYLAR IS SUCH A STUPID WHORE BITCH FOR DOING THAT TO WALT."

I think she has a point.

I think it's fair to say someone is a stupid whore bitch for fucking another man just to get at their partner. I'd say just about the same thing if a man did it too. In fact, most people would, and the idea that most people think it's okay for dudes to cheat is hilarious. They really, really don't think that.

Cool, I hope you'll be showing me all the posts calling Walt a stupid whore bitch for trying to kiss Ms. Molina. Also all the posts calling Don Draper a stupid whore bitch. Also all the posts calling Tony Soprano a stupid whore bitch, or Jimmy McNulty, or Bunk Moreland, or...

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

@humanity said:

Well I'm a straight male, so I think it would really presumptuous to assume that I would be intelligent enough to dislike someone based on their character flaws rather than simply because of their gender - after all, men are quite literally almost animals motivated purely by instinct. I'm surprised men were able to invent anything at all throughout the ages with such inferior intellects.

Wow, sounds like you need to read some feminist literature - the problem is culture, not biology! I'd be happy to recommend something. You might start with some bell hooks - here is a great book (PDF).

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

@martyarf said:

A huge amount of the reaction that Skylar provokes is fundamentally misogynist: you will hear her called a "bitch", a "cunt", and so on endlessly. Walt - who let us not forget, is a multiple murderer, abuser, who threatens people regularly, is extremely manipulative and at this point seemingly divorced from reality - is held up by many (in countless threads like these) as some kind of badass, a renegade who has to Do Bad Things But Is Ultimately Good. These same people probably think Don Draper - a misogynist, cheating, abusive, lying advertising executive is also some kind of hero.

Complex shows: The Sopranos, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, The Wire, nearly anything you can name, do not have heroes. They all have fundamentally immoral characters that you are tricked into sympathizing with. It is a hallmark of 20th century fiction. If you're going to defend Walt to the end, you should at least be aware of the genre conventions that you're in the process of ignoring.

You can call a woman a "bitch" or a "cunt" and not be "fundamentally misogynist." The word misogynist means that you hate women, not that you hate a woman. Do you automatically assume that a woman is engaging in misandry when she uses the words "dick" or a "prick" to refer to a man?

At the same time, Anna Gunn may have a point, but I think it has more to do with someone working against the protagonist, rather than a hatred of women.

The terms "bitch" and "cunt" are gendered - they are used disproportionately against women. As you can see, there is no co-ordinated campaign calling Walter White a cunt or a bitch - no memes, no facebook groups, no thought so widespread that Bryan Cranston is writing articles for the NYT about those words being used against him. Skylar, on the other hand, provokes that response with incredibly uniformity - take this thread as evidence. Also, just for the record - misandry was a word made up in the late 1980s by mens rights activists looking to add an air of academic respectability to their anti-feminist work, and to support their (terrible) conclusion that sexism is simply two sides of a coin, a war that has waged back and forth throughout history. Would you lend credibility to a word that denotes bigotry against slaveowners? Please see this article for more information - http://www.adonismirror.com/10152006_leader_misandry_and_misanthropy.htm

The "dick" and "prick" derail is interesting - why is Skylar never called these words? Because they are gendered. I have seen it commonly expressed that "dick" and "prick", in particular, are masculine insults - they usually convey either a begrudging respect or other backhanded compliment about some aspect of the person's character - tenacious, or bloody-minded. Am I offended when people use those words? Not particularly, because - again - there are rarely campaigns and groups and memes based around calling villainous characters these things, besides which the elevated position that men, on aggregate, hold in society means that I wouldn't be too concerned about men. Owning 90% of the worlds property, being most of the worlds CEOs, politicians and richest people - they can fend for themselves on that delicate issue.

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

#7  Edited By martyarf

@amikron said:

@martyarf said:

@amikron said:

@martyarf: Better let the UK know that then, they've been using that word wrong forever!

I'm English.

Then you should know better than anyone how full of bullshit your post was.

Please explain to me how come the search results for Skylar and Walt are so different?

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

@amikron said:

@martyarf: Better let the UK know that then, they've been using that word wrong forever!

I'm English.

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

Some evidence:

Google search for "skyler white cunt" :

https://www.google.com/search?q=skylar+cunt&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS523US523&oq=skylar+cunt&aqs=chrome..69i57.955j0&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fp=13d6aa3a7d487f41&q=skyler+white+cunt&spell=1

Facebook pages, memes, reddit threads, "Would you fuck Skyler White" threads and so on. Also mixed in news of sites chronicling this language.

Google search for "walter white cunt":

https://www.google.com/search?q=skylar+cunt&rlz=1C1CHFX_enUS523US523&oq=skylar+cunt&aqs=chrome..69i57.955j0&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fp=13d6aa3a7d487f41&q=walter+white+cunt

Any abusive results are related to Skyler, video results for the Walt Jr scene where he calls Walt a pussy, nothing particularly aimed at Walt or Bryan Cranston.

Next time you make a case about cunt applying to men and women, maybe you should do the most cursory of research. It is gendered language, specifically aimed at women.

Avatar image for martyarf
martyarf

251

Forum Posts

0

Wiki Points

10

Followers

Reviews: 0

User Lists: 0

A huge amount of the reaction that Skylar provokes is fundamentally misogynist: you will hear her called a "bitch", a "cunt", and so on endlessly. Walt - who let us not forget, is a multiple murderer, abuser, who threatens people regularly, is extremely manipulative and at this point seemingly divorced from reality - is held up by many (in countless threads like these) as some kind of badass, a renegade who has to Do Bad Things But Is Ultimately Good. These same people probably think Don Draper - a misogynist, cheating, abusive, lying advertising executive is also some kind of hero.

Complex shows: The Sopranos, Mad Men, Breaking Bad, The Wire, nearly anything you can name, do not have heroes. They all have fundamentally immoral characters that you are tricked into sympathizing with. It is a hallmark of 20th century fiction. If you're going to defend Walt to the end, you should at least be aware of the genre conventions that you're in the process of ignoring.