One of the reasons I've never played Dragon Age or Mass Effect is the romance system:
- What if I like everyone in my team equally? I'd feel bad romancing one over the others.
- If I just opt out of the romance entirely, will I be missing a lot?
- What if the only one I'm interested in dating isn't an option?
I didn't know Persona had one, too. I feel like the only one who didn't even know the games existed until recently.