The question is how would they implement it? Remember when Google did that? Now on every comment section of a YouTube video we have some Barack Obama or Adolf Hitler account making a lame joke. Sure you could prohibit those names but my point is that it can be easily faked.
For it to even have a chance of working, they would need some sort of verification process. Like requiring users to give some form of ID. Putting all the logistics aside, I would be very hesitant to give that out online.
It was a disaster, now I have a split youtube account for no reason. And neither of them is my real name. I guess I hit the wrong button at the time.
Invest in your self by picking up some new hobbies if you have the time. Things that give you more to talk about or make you feel more well rounded. Focus on career goals and other life goals to keep you going, take advantage of your free time with those new hobbies. Working to improve your mental health would be a great benefit too. Relationships can be a great motivator, but also probably shouldn't be a crutch to maintain your contentedness/happiness.
For the past two years I accepted that I wouldn't be in a good place to find someone until after 2020. Certainly didn't feel confident enough to maintain a relationship anyway, if given the opportunity. Then BAM out of nowhere, Three weeks ago I ran into a friend from college. We hadn't talked in almost seven years and now we are dating. All that stuff that sounds like bullshit like.."stop looking and some one will appear when you least expect it and change your life". Well maybe there is something to that.
Be friends first, at the very least it is less pressure and will improve your social skills. It's worth not rushing or being fixated on an idea of a relationship. Being more present and in the moment enjoying the friendship would be my advice. Working on being able to have these friendships without the confusion can be tough. Especially when you are lonely and desperate to make something happen. Don't fall for the trap of forcing the issue. You will just cause your self anxiety. It never hurts to have more friends, except when you feel like you can't keep up with every one.(maybe more of an anxiety I have.)
The take away here is don't pressure your self or any one else. Just go try being friends with people! Go out for a dinner and don't call it a date? Try being honest right off the bat that you are probably going to be super awkward for a bit. You can play it off as a bit of a joke how nervous you've gotten. And could discuss that you are working on getting better that this sort of thing.
The secret wasn't that inbox zero is some way of losing stress, not caring at all is the best way to go. Important box grabs most of the stuff you don't want to fade to page 2. Once something shifts off the first page pretend it is gone forever.
Where is the "I don't put milk in my cereal because it is disgusting and it ruins the perfectly good taste of dry cereal" option?
Yeah really this poll is rigged. Probably haven't had milk on cereal since i was 5 or 6 I bet. It's nasty. I don't want to feel rushed out of enjoying my food.
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