I am sorry Jeff. I lost my father a little over a year ago now and there is really nothing I can say that is going to make you feel any better at this point.
I never cried. I still expect him to call. I talk to him some times, though his voice is getting a little harder to hear.
I am really sorry for your loss, please believe that. Death is part of life, just the really shitty part.
Love and well wishes to you and yours, I know you have a strong set of friends to get you through and that can make all the difference.