oskar_det

@oskar_det:

So you're suggesting that it's silly to keep something like that to youselve? Dude, it's obvious you're just a troll pretending to be a pedophile (whoops i mean hebephile) to get some reactions and if i'm being insensitive and you're not a troll, like i said, keep this to your self and seek therapy.....

@oskar_det said:

@TooWalrus said:

@Dany said:

Ok. Enough of this. Get the fuck out of here.

Oh, he totally is that dude that's been trolling the forums for the past few days, isn't he? Well hopefully this one is enough for Sweep to... well, I guess he could always start another account, eh?

It's not trolling. But I'm ready to be banned for this thread. Many moderators of different forums don't want "dirty hebephiles" on their bandwidth. Even though those dirty people haven't hurt anyone, they're still banned everywhere. It's like my work I wrote in the OP. I could never, ever tell anyone about this, no matter if I never hurt someone or not. My very existence is illegal in most places.

Let me give you some advice. If I was a Nazi, and I mean a hardcore Nazi, the last thing I would do is make it part of my public image somewhere where I want to be well regarded. You can't tell people you like little girls and not expect them to be uncomfortable or judge you because of it. And you know what? If you KNOW you aren't going to be accepted anywhere if people knew this about you, here's a hint, DONT TELL THEM.

@oskar_det said:

@TooWalrus said:

@Dany said:

Ok. Enough of this. Get the fuck out of here.

Oh, he totally is that dude that's been trolling the forums for the past few days, isn't he? Well hopefully this one is enough for Sweep to... well, I guess he could always start another account, eh?

It's not trolling. But I'm ready to be banned for this thread. Many moderators of different forums don't want "dirty hebephiles" on their bandwidth. Even though those dirty people haven't hurt anyone, they're still banned everywhere. It's like my work I wrote in the OP. I could never, ever tell anyone about this, no matter if I never hurt someone or not. My very existence is illegal in most places.

You're not going to be banned for being a "dirty hebephile". You're going to be banned for being a terrible addition to our community. Even if you're not just trolling (which you are), all of your threads are garbage, and only serve to make the Giantbomb forums an even worse place to be.

You know, I don't have any numbers in front of me, but I'm pretty sure plenty of dudes don't have sex in their teens and still manage to form normal sexual relationships later in life.

man, you know i can appreciate a good troll from time to time if they're well done. but this is just WAY too much effort. go sort your life out bro!

This is a really long post, but i really didn't want to read anything past the first few lines. If you're really having a problem and you're not just trolling to make people uncomfortable you should see a therapist and keep this to yourself. This is a very distrurbing post that should never of been posted on a forum.

@Dany said:

Ok. Enough of this. Get the fuck out of here.

Oh, he totally is that dude that's been trolling the forums for the past few days, isn't he? Well hopefully this one is enough for Sweep to... well, I guess he could always start another account, eh?

If a therapist doesn't work I doubt a video game forum will.

Ok. Enough of this. Get the fuck out of here.

First off, please don't post mean jokes or spam. This is serious, and I want a serious discussion about it.  Also, this is a long read for you who are interested in what this really is, and I accept all kinds of questions as long as they're serious.
 
I'm attracted to all kinds of girls except pre-teen kids. But I'm especially attracted to teens. That is, girls who have started develop boobs and ass. This is classified as hebephilia, but a lot of people think that someone who is attracted to girls under the age of 18 are pedophiles. That's not true. Pedos are attracted to girls who have still not started to develop their alluring, female shapes. Hebephiles are attracted to girls who have started to develop these features, but are not yet fully adult in mind and body. This really haven't a lot to do with age, as everyone matures way differently. Some girls starts to develop boobs at the age of 8, others not until the age of 16. Points is - age is irrelevant. Only the law focus on the age and draws everyone over the same edge because that's more convienient.
 
It's not that I'm put off by adult women. Heck, I can be attracted to a 40 year old woman if she have the charms. But the thing is - it's simply not the same as a beautiful, young, fresh teen girl. Compare it with food. You can eat something you don't really like because you're hungry, but only THAT certain food truly wets your appetite. It's like people who marry or "fall in love" because they think they can't get any better, and then they never experience true love. They don't live with passion, they just live one day after another.
 
Now, I'm not the person who hurts others. I would never, ever molest a teen girl against her will. Never. I have that much control. But the attraction to what society sees as taboo, evil and illegal has kind of ruined parts of my life. In order to not get too close to teen girls, I stay away from them completely. For example, if I meet a beautiful girl at a party, I try to avoid her, not look into her eyes, not talk to her. I can't socialize with teen girls the way that is normal, because my attraction towards them makes me very nervous to say and do the wrong things.
 
There was one time, however, where I was dangerously close to go too far. My half sister slept at my place once. The only reason I accepted her from her and my father (we have different mothers) was to get a chance to spank her (it's a fetish of mine) There was nothing going on at the night, but in the middle of the day I playfully slapped her on the butt when she got up from the sofa. She just giggled. Later on however, when she sat by the computer and made fun of some girls in her class over a chat, I told her she was mean. She just kept on and said how stupid some girls in her class are, and I said that mean girls like her deserved a spanking. She continued and suddenly I just pulled her over my lap and started to spank her. It didn't go on for long however as I got a huge boner within a mere two seconds. I was extremely scared that she would notice so I threw her off my lap really quick. In that short period of time, I didn't spank her more than 2-3 times. I couldn't really read her reaction, but she didn't seem to mind (she was not fighting to get off or anything and she didn't look at me funny). From that moment, I've stayed away from her. Haven't seen or talked to her in two years. I don't dare to contact her because I know what it might lead up to.
 
This is also led to a life in isolation. If I told anyone at work of this attraction, I would be fired and without work. No company wants to be associated with allowing a dirty hebephile to live and breathe under their roof. People always ask why I don't have a girlfriend, and instead of giving them the real reason, I tell them I simply want to live my life alone because I don't believe in relationships. They accept that explanation because it's pretty normal. Some people just like living alone after all. But I'm not one of them.
 
In order to live, I play lots of games and work out. I always try to be occupied with something to do, because that lessens the pain. The worst moments are right before i sleep, when I go to bed and don't have anything to do before I fall alseep. The feeling that you miss someone to hug, love and kiss, knowing that you're cursed for the rest of your life is not very pleasant. In those situations, I try to think of the mornings to come, how I will enjoy some great game when i wake up and how great I will feel after the workout.
 
I've been to a psycologist. Before I went, I knew it was futile, but I went anyway. You see, a psycologist can do nothing about this. No one can talk you into stop being attractive to 14-15 year old girls. We had a long talk - more than 10 hours divided into several meetings. Yet, she couldn't do anyting to help my situation. She recommended that I really tried to see women my own age and started to develop feelings for them so that I would forget the teen girls. But you see, it doesn't work that way. Even if I get attracted to a 27 year old girl at work, that attraction soon wears thin when I fantazine and imagine about teen girls. Such a relationship is impossible. And no psycologist can "cure" hebephilia, as little as they can cure homosexuality.
 
I think I know myself where this sick attraction comes from. When I was a teenager, I was not allowed to make out with girls. I was also the nerd in glasses that everyone made fun of, making most girls just laugh at me or avoid me in the first place. This led to a whole puberty without sex, kisses or barely hugs. I was totally starved, I didn't have sex or kiss a girl until I was 26. That's right, not even one kiss until I was 26. That was when my first and only real relationship kicked in. You see, I tried. There was this 28 year old woman who I "feel in love with", or at least tried to fall in love with. We kissed a lot, but when we were about to have sex, she cryingly said she had to tell me a secret. She was a transsexual. "She" had been a boy earlier in life but changed gender. This, together with the fact that I was not truly attracted by her, led to a quick and (for her) painful good bye.
 
I believe this sick disease comes from the fact that I still want to experience that special, passionate love that you experience while you're a teen. That mad sexual passion that only teens have. Even though I'm 28 myself, I can't shake off those teenage years. I want them back, redone, so badly that the whole me is totally consumed by this feeling. It's like an old wound that won't ever heal, no matter how many bandages you put on it.
 
Sorry for this huge wall of text, but if it was shorter you misunderstand more than you probably already does. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask them. Any opinions about this?
 
Please, just don't spam or joke.

@oskar_det said:

Other M was the first game where she displays her emotions, even if a lot of fans imagined up their own Samus.

It was also the first game to give her platform heels. 

  

IMHO, this is more violent than gears of war. Why? In gears of war we see species fighting to survive, because resources are limited and they are forced to do so. In this trailer, at the end, they seem to enjoy violence and take it as the first approach when solving some conflicts, moreover pretty irrelevant conflicts that have many other different approaches to be taken before violence. 
 
Maybe the society is very wrong, or maybe it's just me, most probably, the second one. But I would like to know why. 

@oskar_det said:

1) Samus Aran 2) The female in all Pokémon games since Pokémon Crystal. 3) Kachi from Sin & Punishment (she's really an alien but supposed to act and look like a human). 4) Jill Valentine from Resident Evil. 5) Claire Redfield from Resident Evil. 6) Rebecca Chambers from Resident Evil. 7) Vanessa Z. Schneider from P.N.03.8) Shinobu from No More Heores 2. 9) Chun Li from Street Fighter. 10) Ruka from Project Zero 4. These are just a few female leads who don't act like sex objects. However, they all have tits and ass, like most women, so many gamers make them into sex objects anyway. How did they sexualize Samus? Please explain. By giving her a tight suit? What do you think about all men in Prime 3 then? Those suits were pretty tight, eh? They give her a big butt and you think that's sexualizing her?! Seriously, WTF. If those are your definitions there's no wonder you think most women in gaming are sexualized. What you seem to don't understand is that the reason most women don't play video games isn't because the women in most games are attractive, it's because women generally don't like violence and competition as much as men do. It doesn't matter if you have a strong female lead who covers her body in a shooter game, most women won't play that anyway because it's not their type of game. THAT is the real problem. There should be less violence and more social games in order to make women interested in games. Media and people like you seem to think that games with attractive females scares women away because those characters are made to be "sex object" for guys. That's bogus if anything. Do men stop playing games if there's a sexy guy in the game? Of course not.

A good amount of this post contains more than it's fair share of sexism. Allow me to point this out:

you seem to don't understand is that the reason most women don't play video games isn't because the women in most games are attractive, it's because women generally don't like violence and competition as much as men do.

I'm sure the reason a lot of women are turned off to games is the way they represent women. Gears of War, a game you lambasted previously, actually has a pretty significant female fanbase and a pretty significant female character. As far as women not liking violence or competition, here's a forum chat dedicated to women who like to play Gears of War. http://forums.epicgames.com/archive/index.php/t-554479.html

What you posted is rather narrow-minded and smacks of someone who isn't really in touch with reality... or hell, in touch with women in general.

The problem with Other: M's characterization is the clumsy and ham-fisted way Sakamoto attempted to define the Samus in his mind. Previous to Other M we have to derive the details of the woman behind the mask via subtle details in gameplay, atmosphere and what little was shared in the instructions.

The video games depicted a stoic Samus, a woman who dealt with her internal struggles with action rather than words. In the first game we find samus tracking down the space pirates led by mother brain. Samus was chosen for this mission due to her ruthless and resounding successes against other bands of Space pirates. So we know that at that point, Samus is tough and efficient.

We learn later on that her colony was obliterated by space pirates and she was brought up by the Chozo as an orphan, but an orphaned trained and honed to be a blade against the pirates. Even later, she returns to humanity in an attempt to serve with the galactic confederation, only to leave it shortly after. As a person who's been raised mainly by alien creatures, one could draw the conclusion that she was an alien to her own people as she would be more comfortable in communicating with the Chozo than her own people(as she was raised by them).

In Metroid 2, we learn that Samus has no problem in deposing of some of the most hideous and powerful creatures the galaxy could muster and also, that she has a soft side in allowing the infant metroid to live(this illustrates that she may have an easier time identifying with alien life than human life, also, her identifying with another orphan).

In Super Metroid, we learn she is vengeful, because even after the baby metroid almost kills her, it saves her right before Mother Brain delivers the final blow. And then samus gets recharged and pumped up.

All of this is said without a single line of dialogue, this is subtle, this is genius, this is... not Other M. I suspect Other M comes from a Sakamoto where he's given unbridled creative opportunity. You see, Sakamoto is only one of a series of people that had a hand in the creation of the Metroid series and, in my opinion, made the character he wanted her to be, instead of the character she already was.

By the way, to refute your list of video game women who aren't sexualized, I used your list to demonstrate how wrong you are. if I wanted to take more time, I could find something with each of your characters, but I have wasted too much time on this trollish post as is.

Shinobu takes a sexy shower to save in No More Heroes 2

Jill Valentine sure does Dress Sexy to kill some Zombies! And look at those suggestive shots!

Vanessa Schnider not sexualized? She GRINDS HER HIPS when she's firing! Are you fucking kidding me?

Chun Li flashes her goddamn panties with every kick.