@ripelivejam: Hi ripe,
MOBA communities have a really bad rap for possessing some rotten player communities, so it is not just you who seems to have this problem or fear in playing games like League of Legends. I think I can introduce to you some of my cousin's friends, who moan about the LOL community a lot too.
Beyond the fact that there are just simply unpleasant people in the world, LOL, DOTA 2 and others are games that require a high amount of coordination, teamwork and communication. Furthermore in every game what you or anyone else on the team do will affect the entire team; you go only as far as the weakest link on the team. Therefore when someone screws up one way or another, these errors only look the more ugly, because everyone else on the team has to suffer for it (ie. the player(s) who took advantage of the mistake would have more gold, more items and more power, and thus would begin to steamroll the rest of the team).
An IGN article I think sums it up the best; there is the case of internet anonymity, and a game in LOL is no different. Though your fate is tied to fates of your teammates, the game will be over either from a win or a loss in about 20-45 minutes. Unless you are playing with some friends , most teammates are people you will probably not see ever again. Thus what do you have to lose if you go on a tirade on a teammate? Hence the raging and yelling begins.
It's easier said than done, but the best way to play the game is to, as a friend put it, have thick skin. Don't take the yelling or the harsh criticisms personally. If it keeps going on, there is the option to mute the player who's running his or her mouth at you. Then after the game you can report those players for negative behavior; go to the far right and press the red exclamation mark buttons on players who you felt were unsportsmanlike.
You noted early on that you wanted to have a group of friends to play, and that is a good idea, but I would also suggest to play with friends whose accounts are of similar levels. You said that you aren't very good with games like LOL, and playing against better competition because one of your friends happens to be a Level 30 player isn't going to do you any favors. Speaking of friends, it really helps if one of your friends is a knowledgeable player who wouldn't mind answering your questions about the game; that would make you a better player and it'd hopefully result in better games (and wins) for you.
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