Yup.  I think I am done with this.  I played another hour or so of that game, and I am basically through with it.  It just doesn't let you respond to an attack.  Being used to TF2 where almost nothing one hit kills you, and it seems more skill based rather that who see who first, I just can't carry through with it. 
 
Back to whacking people with my useless homewrecker, and hoping for a hat drop.