I have no idea how this turned out as a discussion about how men are being discriminated against as well. Boohoo, poor you. The truth is that men have been oppressing women for millenia, and it's time to change that, and it's our responsibility as men to do so as soon as possible in any way you can. Also, a lot of the shit mentioned here are totally male constructs! Women are not to blame, and this is super serious point. Allright, maybe your asshole ex-wife stole your shit, and the judge judged in her favor, but if you would've had an equal society where the ex-wife was working and making the same amount of money that situation would simply not exist. There would be no logical reason. Feminism is a cause for women's rights, sure, but it's also a cause for equality that causes ripples in pretty much anything that stretches beyond women and onto creating a more humane and equal society. Really.
But - I do not think ALL men are guilty and should feel a collective shame over what their entire gender is doing or have done. That's not constructive and also makes it quite impossible to be a man, feminist and not some type of self loathing idiot. I love being a man, and I treat women goddamn right and have always done so. It's completely fine to be male and I really think you shouldn't feel shame for what you were born as. That's dumb. It's our responsibility to change society, but its not your responsibility to feel guilt over what the asshole brodouche next door is doing, but if you dare you could always punch him in the face the next time he's beating up his girflriend.