Disclaimer: I'm coming from this from a Pick up Artist prospective. While there are some who pick up girls just to have sex, I'm the one who uses it for self improvement.
After reading this thing, I have to say you are really clingy and chased her away. Based on what you are saying in the post, it seems like you two were never dating but were just friends. It's ok to like someone (you can never be jealous without liking someone) who is a friend but never let that beat yourself up for it. You put her in a high pedestal, when in reality she sounds like an average girl. The only beautiful creature you should be thinking is yourself. Never lose that ego. If you can't make yourself happy, how do you expect to be in a health relationship? You need to think of it logically of what went wrong a learn from it for next time.
My advice is try to get more female friends in your life. Just talk to them. You don't need to get with them, just learn how to talk to girls. Girls are meant to be fun creatures. Joke with them, and make fun with them. You'll be surprised how they respond if you make it a really obvious it's a joke. I always make fun of girls on what they like, just to make them smile. Think of it this way, treat your female friends like your male friends. Also, there is no such thing as a girl is "out of your league", you can talk to any girl. If they respond badly to you, it's them, not you.
Also don't shower girls with gifts, only complement them or reward them when they deserve it. Always be genuine about it. There is a point where being too nice comes off as being creepy. Girls like confident fun guys who have a sense of humor and isn't a drama queen. This whole "Nice guys finished last" is false, Boring guys finish last.
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