That's really harsh man, I'm sorry to hear that. I can't say I'd be able to understand your situation, because I have no clue how I'd react myself, but it would definitely be traumatizing. The only advice I can really offer is kind of cheesy: Find the silver lining with the trauma and just try to appreciate life all that much more.
" Well...I just counted the coins, and I have to say that I'm surprised at how much it actually was. It was way more than I thought. Even more surprising though is the fact that there is already a guess in this thread that is only off by one cent. Yes, you read that correctly. There is already a guess that is off by ONLY ONE CENT!! That is nuts. "
And now come the floods of responses going +/- 1 cent of other guesses in the topic :P