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#2 Edited by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

This is where he's keeping chatlogs and information.

In the logs, she admits to cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan Grayson from Kotaku, her boss and a married man Joshua Boggs, Robin Arnott, and two other unnamed people. I never followed much of what Zoe did, but I respected her for it nonetheless. I was looking forward to seeing what her work would be like in the future. But reading through this, made me lose every single shred of respect I might have had for her. People make mistakes, once. But hypocrites make the same mistakes five+ times, all the while lying about it until they can no longer deny it.

Maybe it's false, and I'm wrong, I kind of wish that that were the case. Here's a copy+paste of the tl:dr and you can make up your own opinion.

I dated Zoe Quinn. I thought she was the most amazing, kind hearted person in the world.

Turns out she was bullshitting pretty much everything I fell in love with her for, and is actually an unbelievable jerk. She effortlessly lied to and manipulated for months — simply because it was not believable that someone could be that selfish of a person, that convincing of a liar, and that good of a manipulator, while adamantly arguing against the very principles she espoused. Here’s some stuff she did / does in no particular order or tense [which you can verify using the chatlog images in the footer of Act 1]:

  1. Spend quite a bit of time talking about how she would never ever cheat on anyone because that violates sexual consent — all the while cheating on me
  2. With Nathan Grayson
  3. And Robin Arnott
  4. And Joshua Boggs
  5. (who is both her boss and married)
  6. And at least two other people (whose names are censored). And very probably more — but I won’t get into why I believe that.
  7. As opposed to informing Joshua’s wife, primarily freak out about her own career if his wife goes public.
  8. Do her goddamn hardest to make sure I didn’t sleep with anyone but her while we were broken up. Inevitably succeed.
  9. Sleep with a bunch of people while we were broken up, ignoring all of the strong principled stances she used to convince me not to.
  10. Pretend we didn’t need to use protection whenever we had sex while we were broken up
  11. or while we were together
  12. Basically demand I ostracize a friend who was going through some seriously fucked up shit, because that friend had sort of showed a tentative interest in me while we were broken up.
  13. Have no problem choosing to work for Joshua Boggs after cheating on me with him, and after finding out about his wife.
  14. Spend an hour arguing that she would never lie in a relationship — while she was lying about all of the things in our relationship.
  15. Stop at pretty much no length to prevent me from finding out the truth. If I had to lose 10 pounds to bouts of panic attacks spent questioning my own sanity for a sleepless week of being ostracized so she could spend that time cheating on me — well, that’s unfortunate for me, but the important thing is that I’m not around to make things awkward between her and the flavor of the week.
  16. Totally make two people up to divert suspicion from the fact that she was fucking Nathan. Seriously, she just — she made two people up. This probably doesn’t deserve its own list item but like, the claim that there were two additional people crashing with her was one of the things that made me think I couldn’t possibly have been right to worry during the panic attack week because who the hell would just fabricate . . . PEOPLE?
  17. Later go on to ostracize Nathan for a week simply so she could fuck some other guys.
  18. Have unprotected sex with me like 12 freaking hours after cheating on me with her boss.
  19. Express remorse really damn well, really damn often, and only about the specific thing she has been caught doing. Express no remorse about anything she hasn’t been caught doing yet.
  20. Lie in literally the same breath she is expressing remorse about having lied. Which isn’t to say her remorse is fake, I can’t know if it is or isn’t, it sure *looks* and *sounds* real enough. It’s just to say that her remorse doesn’t actually mean anything in terms of future intent. She’ll promise never to do something again in a fit of despair and regret, and then do that thing like an hour later.
  21. Lie a fucking LOT. Like holy shit how much more can one person possibly lie. At one point she actually lies about a lie about a lie about a lie.
  22. A bunch of other fucked up things which I’m not even going to bother researching the legal ramifications of telling you about.
  23. After making a grand show of remorse and expressing a desire to make all of this up to me, go on to ostracize me, because doing the right thing and making it up to me isn’t worth the risk that I might go public with any additional admissions if we have to talk things out online.
  24. Be really fucking good at pretending to be worth looking up to.

I suppose the title should read "Nathan Grayson" but I was having a real hard time making anything fit within 60 characters.

#3 Posted by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

I've played probably about 6 games so far. Four of them had 75% of the other characters afk from the start, so there was no point in playing but I couldn't leave and start a new game because their system is stupid, one had some 12 year old kid walking around and trying to get people to have sex with him then whining about how nobody would, and one actually went okay but a big chunk of the cast still stopped playing early, so the last five minutes were just me and one other person wasting time because it wasn't like we could leave to start another game. People also keep saying that the Father and Sons scenario is broken, nothing goes anywhere. I also ended up being Boyle 5 out of the 6 times that I played, so that was stupid too.

I bought premium, for the voices and hoped that the other scenario would be better, but I immediately realized that NOBODY is playing the premium level. So I can't even play that. It feels like a large waste of money at this point.

#4 Posted by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

PSN: Squigglyelf

Timezone: Central

Games: I've got Battlefield, Trials, Child of light and some free PSN+ stuff. If anyone wants to play some Battlefield, hit me up. I'm hoping to get Second Son and Assassin's Creed soonish.

#5 Posted by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

Character creation is open again, so once the maintenance is over I'll be on for a few minutes, then I'll be back around 6pm CST. Hopefully there's still room for more members. My character's name is Serell Reia.

#6 Edited by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

All I want is Borderlands 2 and the season pass + DLC. I was going to buy it on amazon digitally, but I live in Canada, and have a Canadian credit card, so now that's out and I just have to hope that steam sells it at a similar price when the time rolls around.

Nevermind. There is no longer anything I want from the Steam Summer Sale.

#7 Posted by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

I used OkCupid for a few months. I talked to a few guys, but nothing really seemed to go from there. But one evening, a read an article, about how to get people's attention on dating websites. But you have to go out there, and send people messages instead of waiting for them to send them to you. Instead of just sending a note that says "Hi" or "You're Beautiful", send them something meaningful. Take a look at their interests, or their pictures, and find something that stands out. Then make a comment on it, if it's about games, ask them about something that just came out, or a game that you like that you could recommend. If they have a pet, ask them questions about it. From personal experience, I find the best way to get people to talk to you, is to make the conversation about them, but without trying to be too pushy.

I met my boyfriend on OkCupid over two and a half years ago, I sent him a message talking about how awesome the hat he was wearing in one of his pictures was, and it just went from there. But I guess it's hit and miss for some people.

#8 Posted by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

Does anyone want to trade fruit? I have peaches.

#9 Edited by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

My Friend Code is 1461-7419-1341!

I'm Danni! I'll be getting it Sunday, but won't be able to play online until that evening since I'll be at work!

Edit: Added everyone who posted up to this point.

If you add me, send me a message so I can make sure I have you added as well.

#10 Edited by SquigglyElf (42 posts) -

Serell@squishalope Please!