Hey, I just pulled the trigger and texted her just shy of the 48 hour mark. No response yet, but I'll keep you posted. I was vague on the details in the initial post to gauge the reaction, but I'm seeing some recurring themes. A couple things I'll address.
First, on the shadiness of the strip club. Yes, it is referred to as a "gentlemen's club", and it's not a total hole by any stretch. However, I am in Canada and I have never been to a "no-touch" American club so I have no baseline of comparison, but that rule is most certainly not in place here.
Second, there seem to be a lot of people here with the "her job as a dancer doesn't define her" attitude. Which to some extent I totally agree with, and I think I showed a great deal of respect (which she claimed was a key reason she gave me a number to begin with). Maybe she spends her days reading stories about Jesus to blind orphans, who knows. Stereotypes aside, her job is creating a sexual fantasy for men willing to pay the price, and she gave me a phone number while she was on the clock. It may very easily be that the number was given within her fictitious dancer persona as a hook to keep me on the line and paying. It did seem that she was dropping that ruse and being on the level with me at that moment but, to use wrestling terminology, maybe it was a "worked shoot". For all I know I just sent a text to a local pizza joint.
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