@FunkasaurasRex: Now that's not very nice.
My best advice is if you get the chance talk to your male friend about what he's doing. If he's not willing to be honest about it himself then the best thing to do is be the bringer of bad news. It's not a very satisfying answer but I'm not sure if this problem has one.
There's wisdom in your words, fat Nathan Drake.
Hey! Leave Fat Nathan Drake alone you cold hard soulless bastard!