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For a thread about somebody setting out to be more compassionate, things sure did get aggressive quickly.

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No, I am sorry, I am coming across as hostile. They doubled my dosages and I'm basically a crazy person right now because my hormones are craaazzyyyyy and I haven't adjusted yet. It's part of why I haven't been posting much lately.

Don't worry about it! Everyone's apologizing because we're polite folks. I'm glad you've chimed in, and even a little off topic, it's still a conversation well worth having.

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Ah yes, good ol alt Sports Gerstmann. A gift that keeps on giving.

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@gaff: Yeah, I remember him discussing Sophie Prell, and it's unfortunate that it took even more for him to eventually say something like this and really make some changes. Though, better later than never.

I hope many people realize that his comments here seem to be about more than just what he has said on Twitter or in comics. What he is describing is a personal failing that has not only hurt him in his public interactions but also private ones. It's hard for any flaw like this not to impact those closest to you, and it sounds like he sees now how he hurt them over the years.

Even if someone does not agree with why he was criticized on Twitter or what have you, he is making a statement about himself that I think more of us should consider. You don't have to be public about it like he has, but honestly looking at yourself and trying to see where you have issues is a mature thing to do. We are who we are, but we can grow as people as we age. I am a person in progress, and I hope that I am progressing forward and not sliding backward in every area of my life. Obviously, that is difficult, and frankly, I will not always live up to that. I have my own flaws which still plague me, and I can only hope to assess them honestly and pursue improvement over time. Because I care about who I am as a person, and I care about the people who I interact with.

I think it's reasonable to be less than convinced in Gabe's sincerity, thanks in part to his repeated words with little result, but I believe we can still have some hope. I hope he really is committed to improving how he treats others, and if he is, I will be glad to see it benefit him personally and improve the time he has with all the people that know him.

And, ha. I can appreciate some sincerity, Gaff. I'm that way, and you know, it's alright!

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@smcn said:

@jeanluc said:

I'm glad that he seems to be taking the first steps to growing as a person. That's a hard thing to admit.

Except he said something similar the first time he got caught making transphobic statements, then proceeded to do it again. Within a few weeks. And I've posted them before in similar threads but this is still my favorite sequence of tweets when that happened:

Obviously, actions will have to show a difference, because words have failed in the past. I think this is the fullest apology and resolution to improve he has made, and I hope he follows through on it.

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#7  Edited By TruthTellah

@legion_: That second video is well worth the post though.

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@legion_: heh. Thanks, but yeah... a lot of us have known for a while. We even made gifs of it and everything.

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@humanity said:

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@darji: It's not her responsibility to explain. It's your responsibility to learn, and to ask questions without coming off as insensitive.

I don't know. I'd say @darji's trying to learn. He's just not particularly good at expressing it.

I don't know either. As much as I am for civil discussions and respecting other human beings regardless of race, sex etc.. I don't think it should be anyones responsibility to Google transgender issues before posting on a video game forum in case you inadvertently offend someone. It's a fairly niche topic that most people, myself included, aren't familiar with. Heck I don't even know what SRS is.

then a bunch of people that have no idea what theyre talking about start parading shit around like its true and if nobody says anything because people like me tend to lurk rather than get all pro active about this stuff because generally we just get shit like the above which says "its a minority issue so why should i have to learn about it BEFORE i inadvertently put people down" and then we say something and its "well how would you expect me to know about this niche issue" and then it just continues with a bunch of people that dont know what they are talking about sitting around wondering why people that arent like them feel upset

I'm not going to talk about it anymore here. In this thread or anywhere else, because it doesn't seem to do any good.

Fortunately, I'd say you're doing some good. While you shouldn't need to be someone to inform others, people do seem to listen to you more than they do some others on here.

I think there's real value when you post; though it shouldn't only be about this. I also want to know what you think of JRPGs, DLC, and other topics of the day. ha. We're hopefully all here in a forum to interact with one another, and I certainly appreciate when your voice can get in there. :)

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Thank you for your tireless work! I look forward to seeing all you will do in the year to come!