The point I was trying to make is that I would rather take the money that is being spent on 1 day, on stuff that the two of us enjoy and have that for ever.
Have you tried expressing this feeling to your fiancee?
I stopped reading when you starting talking about the things the money could be spent on, a whole bunch of bullshit hardware. Check your head man, your reasoning for owning things seems incredibly frivolousness.
It's ok to put money into things you care about... just don't think you 'care' that validly about having all the colors of the things you like. Excessive.
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