the vagina comment was not harmless
it only seems harmless to you if you arent educated on transgender issues at all
its a "it doesnt effect me at all so i dont see how it could effect you" thing
being trans is not a mental illness
you can get your legal gender changed(they even update your birth certificate!) long before you go through with SRS
not all trans people want SRS
which is why the vagina comment isnt harmless because it says that sex and gender are the same thing and they are really not
Ah I see. Thank you for clarifying these things for me.. But you can see how uninformed people like I am as well can come to this conclusion or? I do not think it is a reason to get angry but rather try to explain this to people even if you have to do this again and again. But of course this is not going against you but rather these people who actually insulted and attacked him instead of explaining this like you did.
To be fair, some people did assume that he just didn't understand and tried to inform or correct him. He insulted or went off on those people (but this is admittedly after other people attacked him, so he was likely in a defensive mode by that point).
There were definitely assholes on all sides, but his reactions consistently made things worse almost every time. His reactions in some cases have been understandable, but still not appropriate. I hope he makes good on trying to be less reactionary and defensive. It'll be good for him, his company, and gaming as a whole if he becomes more level-headed and understanding. I see where you're coming from though, Darji.