It has never been our intent on the moderation side to stifle legitimate civil conversation, but we are going to stick to enforcing rules that prohibit harassment and discussions of people's private personal lives. Unfortunately, a lot of these recent debates were initially very tightly coupled with a lot of things inappropriate for discussion here, and as a result, we had to lock things down pretty hard to prevent things from entering inappropriate territory and getting out of hand.
Also, some of the language is a bit gross in the images in that post. Keep in mind that we can and will hold you responsible for linking to content that breaks the forum rules.
Except that you've (maybe not you specifically, but mods in general) have deleted every single post with her name at all. It's getting to the point where I don't even understand half the conversation going on now because most of it is missing.
There's a difference in moderating and outright silencing conversation.