Not sure what im doing wrong here but i seem to be stuck in FF if I decide to play it, as in there is no way out. My ps3 button for my game options just gives me a giant red X on the screen and there is no option to leave the game. Which means if i want to quit the game and play another game I have to restart my PS3. I must be missing something?

If you want to exit whilst in-game, just navigate to the main menu (Start) and either log out or exit game under the System tab. If you mean updater/ launcher, keep your finger pressed down on the home DualShock home button and select 'exit game'.

Yeah, you have to hold the home button, you can't just push it like you can with every other game.

I noticed that too, logged out and was stuck on the launcher with no way to quit lol, had to hold the PS button in until i had the option to quit out completely.