What a year 2015 turned out to be for me!
I went from living what I considered to be a busy life to leading an actually busy life. My wife and I of 5+ years welcomed our first child Zachary into the world in late June. I thought I had life figured out and I knew better than anyone what to expect. We waited to have our first child. I'm now 31, she's 30. We both have great jobs, own a house and two cars, are stable financially and have quick commutes to work. If anyone was ready, I figured, it was us!
After the first week we settled into parenthood and I thought, man this isn't so bad. You change a diaper, feed them, burp them and love them. I even still had time to play a game here and there! After the first week I was getting ready to head back to work and then a simple wellness doctors visit changed everything. Turns out there was a problem with my sons heart, it was beating way too fast. Two hospitals later and I'm looking at little Zachary on monitors in a children's hospital in the ICU. After a few days the doctors are telling us to prepare ourselves for the worst. It's a feeling that is hard to describe and I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I can honestly say that the despair I felt was the worst thing to go through in my life.
Remarkably, Zachary's heart started beating normally again after an iv change. He's on daily medication and doctors are confident about his long term prognosis. A healthy normal life appears to be in his future. Needless to say, this experience changed my life. I thought my priorities had changed before, now they really had. Every moment of my time was devoted to my family as it helped me see how precious life can be.
My wife finally encouraged me to spend some time on myself. I have hobbies. I'm an avid long distance runner (which helped me immensely during this whole process) and I love to hike and fish. Outdoor stuff is hard right now, (its cold!) it takes me out of the home. So I turned to my other hobby, gaming!
This generation, gaming had started to take a backseat for me. I still bought a bunch of redundant consoles and handhelds that I never use. I cleaned house somewhat. PC gaming isn't realistic for me anymore, as I don't want to confine myself to our office.(setting up a PC in our rec room just isn't realistic) We have an Xbox one, a Wii U, 3ds, Vita and Ipad mini2. The ps4 we sold for a wiiU when I realized I didn't need a ps4 and xbox.
So gaming for me now tends to be in short bursts. My wife bought be MGSV for my birthday in September. I just now finished it after Xmas. The wii U has gotten more use than I thought with the accessibility of the gamepad. Mario Maker is fantastic! Both my wife and I loved mario as kids, shes better at platforming then I, so I tend to create levels and watch her try to beat them! Its a great experience. Currently I'm playing Lara Croft Go on my ipad/iphone, and I also blew through Halo 5's campaign in about a week or so. (WTF is going on in Halo these days? I dunno? There are spartans everywhere!) I've also been creeping through Ori and the blind forest. I say creeping because I wasn't expecting the difficulty to be so high!
So my questions for my fellow gamer parents are this. How have your gaming habits changed? Do you find yourself gravitating towards shorter linear experiences? Do mobile games occupy more space for you? I don't want give up gaming, but once my son starts getting older I'm obviously not going to be playing mortal kombat while he watches! Do any of you change your gaming preferences, ala family friendly Nintendo?
These are just a few of my burning questions and I appreciate any feedback. Thanks for taking the time to read everyone!
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