I wanted to share something for those like me who fear that sometimes maybe the human condition of loneliness is too much to overcome, as a whole or even as an individual. But maybe eventually it can be the thing to bring us together. This is basically from a response I posted in a different post:
I feel the right of EVERY human should be to be able to voice their opinion no matter what that opinion may be. And a big one for me is that there are many people that do not see opinions which are not in line with their own as a valid opinion. You absolutely do not have to agree with others opinions, in fact I would say the fact of not agreeing is more important and absolutely natural since not one human being is the same as another human being. Maybe it's my own failing as a human in never being able to "fit in" comfortably with unfortunately next to no one in my own life that brought me to feel the way I do. I work at it some everyday regardless, but this loneliness of being human can be overwhelming I personally believe for everyone whether or not it's consciously in the forefront of their mind or not... and that disconnection and loneliness we all share is what keeps me connected the most with other humans and their opinions when I hear them, see them or what have you.
To clarify more when I refer to this human condition of loneliness it's more of an existential nature, I think the works (the ones I've read at least) of Erich Fromm get pretty close to my own feelings and here's a decent summery on that to hopefully make it less nebulous if you'd prefer: http://multiversum.com.ua/index.php/journal/article/view/133
That being said, obviously I don't 100% agree with all his other views, though from what I've read they do seem well thought out, but that's something else to talk about if anyone wants.
As you can tell I'm not a great writer, but didn't want to say too much since I would love to discuss whatever this may offshoot if it would help anyone feel better, or if there is any interest!
As it's in my nature I'd also just like to say that yes obviously I'm phishing to help myself feel better as well, pretty sad I guess. But I guess like me (most of the time) many people, for whatever their various reasons are, feel like it's the better choice to just not talk.