So I'm pretty sure some of you have noticed that I've been fairly on edge and making unprovoked mean remarks or retaliations on the forums lately. I'd like to take this opportunity to explain a little bit, and hopefully reach some of the people I've lashed out at.
So basically, last week I made some plans with this girl I know. We were going to go to lunch. Kind of a date, but not expressly spoken as such. Anyway, we were set up to go out on Tuesday, at around 2:30-3:00 pm. It gets close to 3 o'clock, she's not here. So I went outside to the end of my driveway, just in case she didn't know which house mine was (my driveway is long, and my house is inlet from the street very far back). A half hour goes by, still no sign of her.
So, I went back inside to see if maybe she had tried to contact me. she didn't, but as I was doing my normal browsing, I went to Facebook and right up front on my homepage, she had posted a status saying that she was heading out for a "fun day with her friends". So I asked her what happened to our plans. She deleted that message, and had not contacted me as of this afternoon. And to top all of that off, apparently she's kinda/maybe/definitely dating some other asshole who lives in PA (she and I are from New York and live in the same town).
So having said all of this, I just kinda hope that some of you will understand my actions lately. I've been super pissed about the whole thing, and for some reason when things like this happen I take it out in several ways, one of them on forums. Anyway, I know I'm more than likely to get a few cool story bro's, and a lot of people saying "Who the fuck is this guy, and why is he apologizing?". But hey, those who know what I'm on about will hopefully get the message.
TL; DR: I got royally fucked over, took out my anger on the forums, and now I'm saying sorry for that.
Bad couple of days, and apologies.
So I'm pretty sure some of you have noticed that I've been fairly on edge and making unprovoked mean remarks or retaliations on the forums lately. I'd like to take this opportunity to explain a little bit, and hopefully reach some of the people I've lashed out at.
So basically, last week I made some plans with this girl I know. We were going to go to lunch. Kind of a date, but not expressly spoken as such. Anyway, we were set up to go out on Tuesday, at around 2:30-3:00 pm. It gets close to 3 o'clock, she's not here. So I went outside to the end of my driveway, just in case she didn't know which house mine was (my driveway is long, and my house is inlet from the street very far back). A half hour goes by, still no sign of her.
So, I went back inside to see if maybe she had tried to contact me. she didn't, but as I was doing my normal browsing, I went to Facebook and right up front on my homepage, she had posted a status saying that she was heading out for a "fun day with her friends". So I asked her what happened to our plans. She deleted that message, and had not contacted me as of this afternoon. And to top all of that off, apparently she's kinda/maybe/definitely dating some other asshole who lives in PA (she and I are from New York and live in the same town).
So having said all of this, I just kinda hope that some of you will understand my actions lately. I've been super pissed about the whole thing, and for some reason when things like this happen I take it out in several ways, one of them on forums. Anyway, I know I'm more than likely to get a few cool story bro's, and a lot of people saying "Who the fuck is this guy, and why is he apologizing?". But hey, those who know what I'm on about will hopefully get the message.
TL; DR: I got royally fucked over, took out my anger on the forums, and now I'm saying sorry for that.
Buck up chum.
" I thought you were always an asshole, so I didn't notice any changes. "Were you one of the "special" kids in elementary school who had the privilege of being taught in the boiler room?
And calling my mother a whore in French is creative?" @Axxol: My my what a creative response. Translating my insult into English and throwing it back at me. Surely you're a descendant of Oscar Wilde. "
You always seemed like a bro so no harmed done, I'm actually okay with this thread because it proves to me that not everyone on Giant Bomb is incapable of talking to girls. Also this thread is now a flame war.
No. I'm not a stoner, I just like The Brave Little Toaster. Why did you even bring my mother into this anyway?" @Axxol: Spanish or French, your choice. Also, if my powers of inference are decent I can assume your avatar is referring to you being a stoner. If so...may God bless your mother with the strength to tolerate such a shameful offspring being ejected from her loins. "
" You always seemed like a bro so no harmed done, I'm actually okay with this thread because it proves to me that not everyone on Giant Bomb is incapable of talking to girls. Also this thread is now a flame war. "Fuckin' tell me about it, Jesus Christ and other profane language.
But anyway, thanks. I appreciate that.
Forum bros before hoes.
" I thought you were always an asshole, so I didn't notice any changes. "This made me lol <3
" @Axxol: Ta mere est une grande putain! "I fixed that post for ya. You need to find a better translator.
Anyways, here's my guide to dealing with anger:
Do othing.
Seriously, I'm no good at handling anger. I just sort of keep it all in. But I haven't killed anyone yet, so I'm figuring it works for now.
Wish I could help, but I'm like purple Charizard and I have learned to just bottle my emotions and not think about them.
A friend of mine went through the same thing recently, but the bitch talked him into meeting some place that was 2 hours away, and he ended up waiting for her for 3-4 hours and she never showed.
I try to see the silver lining in every bad situation, and the best I could come up with is that at least you found out she was scum now as opposed to further along in the relationship. Easier to just chock it up as a life lesson and try to move on. Try to at least.
i had a situation like that where me and this chick were supposed to meet up. we planned it out weeks before because we were planning to hang out the day after i came back from a vacation. my phone broke so i couldnt contact her so i assumed she was going to keep her end of the deal considering we had a specific date/time and everything. she doesnt show for a couple hours and uses a bullshit excuse that she didnt want to get stood up. she was clearly hanging with friends. me and her dated for a while after that and she broke up with me saying she wasnt "ready for a relationship." i guess i shouldve seen this coming...
I'm sorry to hear that. Social life sucks like that sometimes.
Also...
@RoujinX said:
" I'm so glad I gew up in a world without Facebook. "
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