Do you have a memento from the first person you ever dated?

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#1  Edited By BisonHero

I'm back at my parents' house, finally cleaning the remainder of stuff out of my old room so it can be turned into a guest room. Found a box full of old stuff, including a few trinkets and mementos from the first girl I dated. I intend to throw out most of it because we broke up like five years ago and I forgot I even had any of it.

However, I feel like keeping maybe one thing: it turns out I kept the receipt from the first time I ever took a girl out to dinner, and that seems like an amusing sort of thing to keep, to remember that awkward period of my life. On the other hand, it's just a faded receipt, so I'm not sure I'll bother keeping it.

Thoughts and/or personal anecdotes?

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#2  Edited By WMWA

Yes! I have this stupid ficking blanket. I can't throw it away though. I'd feel terrible forever. It's just kinda sticky led into the most store-agey space I can find. She's mean

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#3  Edited By ImmortalSaiyan

Keeping the receipt from your first date is sweet. Nothing wrong with keeping it for possible sentimental value.

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#4  Edited By Jeust

I do save mementos from important moments in my life, like my first girlfriend, and second and third... ahah

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#5  Edited By SirOptimusPrime

The only one I would have from my first girlfriend is a picture, and keeping that would have been fucking infinitely creepy.

So, no.

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#6  Edited By Slaker117

Is it weird that my mind automatically filled in the word "shooter" after seeing "first person"? Made the thread title really confusing.

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#7  Edited By BisonHero

@SirOptimusPrime said:

The only one I would have from my first girlfriend is a picture, and keeping that would have been fucking infinitely creepy.

So, no.

Yeah, that's a careful line to walk. I can at least feel not creepy about keeping a receipt, because it's less personal, and it's more a memento of the event of going on a first date than focusing on the former girlfriend herself. I would feel megacreepy if I kept a picture of her or a note she sent me or anything.

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#8  Edited By Phatmac

Nope. Burn that shit or junk it. A waste of time to think about your first date and other shit like that.

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#9  Edited By jonnyboy

One of her fingers.

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#10  Edited By Contrarian

Her virginity .......

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#11  Edited By DukesT3

first i dated? I have a nude picture of her that I took. First time I lost my virginity? 16 and was with a friend from the same whom just said, hey wanna come over? parents aren't over. I had a condom from a friend and my dad ask me "Your good?" and i was just "yeah" and he just "ok, be safe.." so.. I guess at the time we were like bonding? I don't know, it was interesting nonetheless.

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#12  Edited By WMWA

Meh. My first post was garbage. But I fucking hate finding things of the girls I actually loved in my place. It can be waaaay after I stopped caring in my head. Going through stuff, see that and it makes everything come rushing back all over again. I wish someone would come burn/return all that stuff when you're sleeping.

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#13  Edited By wadtomaton

do psychological scars count? >_>;;;

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#14  Edited By deathstriker666

You mean the corpses?

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#15  Edited By cikame

She gave me a picture but i threw it away, kinda wish i still had it.
3rd girlfriend gave me Three Kings on dvd, that movie is awesome.

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#16  Edited By Quick_Stop_Chad

I have a photo she gave me before prom, when i was younger.

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#17  Edited By JasonR86

A strand of her hair.

...what?

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A wolf necklace, soul calibur 4, and Batman Arkham Asylum. Too bad she was a ho.

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#19  Edited By Mirado

The first girl I (seriously) dated was one that I wound up going with for two years until I found her fucking a guy on the side. Not the kind of thing you want to find out, and not the kind of thing you feel like keeping mementos of.

C'est la vie. There have been many girlfriends and many (better) stories since then, so I don't particularly feel like remembering what was, in essence, a rocky start to a decent career in the relationship world.

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#20  Edited By Morrow

@demonknightinuyasha said:

do psychological scars count? >_>;;;

lol I wanted to write something similar... ._.

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#21  Edited By TheDudeOfGaming

@wmaustin55 said:

Yes! I have this stupid ficking blanket. I can't throw it away though. I'd feel terrible forever.

STOP LIVING IN THE PAST BRO!!!... move on.

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#22  Edited By audiosnow

I have her head in a cardboard box. Brad Pitt keeps pestering me about it.

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#23  Edited By Forderz

Her father returned the necklace I gave her back to me. That bastard!

...I was twelve, she was eleven. He said she wasn't ready.

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#24  Edited By StarvingGamer

Nope, I'm a real slash and burn sort of guy when it comes to past relationships.

Functional shit without any sentimental value I keep, everything else gets junked.

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#25  Edited By tim_the_corsair

Barring a small scar on my foreskin from a stray sharp tooth, I'm memento free. That was fun to explain to the girls after her let me tell you.

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#26  Edited By Jimbo

Mementos are how you end up getting caught.

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#27  Edited By matti00

I did have some stuff, just cause I was too lazy to throw it away. Then recently she told me she wanted all that stuff off me, turned out she was still in love with me.

Important note: I just got married and I'm trying for my own greatest king. I gave her all that stuff, and now I don't really want to talk to her any more.

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#28  Edited By XenoNick

Yup a stupid Cloud plushie thing.

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#29  Edited By mandude

Yes. Her soft, sweet scalp. Not sure if I'll keep it though.

It's starting to smell.

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#30  Edited By dbz1995
@mlarrabee said:

I have her head in a cardboard box. Brad Pitt keeps pestering me about it.

Truly excellent.
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#31  Edited By mercutio123

A small child.

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#32  Edited By Fallen189

I kept everything in a box. The most precious thing is a book she made me of our first year together that's really sweet. I'm sure I'll look back one day with fond memories

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#33  Edited By SeanFoster

I have a little Mew Pokemon plushie.

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#34  Edited By BigChickenDinner

I got 99 problems..

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#35  Edited By cookiemonster

Think I still have a the movie tickets somewhere from my first date. The film was fucking terrible, it had Jude Law in it and was about owing people organs or some shit.

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Still got the ring he gave me.
Won't ever take it off.

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#37  Edited By AlexanderSheen

@CookieMonster said:

Think I still have a the movie tickets somewhere from my first date. The film was fucking terrible, it had Jude Law in it and was about owing people organs or some shit.

Repo men?

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#38  Edited By galiant

Love letters from her and a lock of her hair. I threw it all away the second time she broke my heart.

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#39  Edited By Flawed_System

I don't date.

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#40  Edited By Kandycane2029

Kinda.. I used to be heavily into Flash animation and web comics in high school, so I made a few things involving my ex.. as awesome as they were at the time, they suck hard now, and don't mean much, considering we just got back into contact recently and things have been interesting.

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#41  Edited By Wrighteous86

I have a memory box with a bunch of stuff like that. Nothing from my first girlfriend, but a decent amount of stuff from my first love. Letters, pictures, her garter from prom. Even though the relationship has changed (we're just friends now and I actually went to her wedding two years ago and her baby shower last night), it's nice to look back sometimes and see who I used to be and who she used to be.

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#42  Edited By cookiemonster

@AlexanderSheen: Yeah, thats the one. The ending was hilariously bad. The only thing any good about it was that the RZA had a cameo role.

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#43  Edited By Winternet

Yes, her blood.

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#44  Edited By matthias2437

Only thing I have kept from my first girlfriend was a pretty awesome drawing she made me. I would get rid of it but it seriously is awesome.

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#45  Edited By habster3

Dating?...

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#46  Edited By Little_Socrates

A copy of Inuyasha the Movie 2 I bought so we could watch it together. No joke. Uuuuuugh.

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#47  Edited By Video_Game_King

Her Kingdom :|.

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#48  Edited By Jrinswand

Yep. I did marry her though.

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#49  Edited By YoThatLimp

@Jeust said:

I do save mementos from important moments in my life, like my first girlfriend, and second and third... ahah

Ears don't count sicko.

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#50  Edited By gamefreak9

Um I have the bday card she gave me... somewhere. She was a great girl, too bad I was dick :p.